Honestly nobody’s easy to date. Everyone has their insecurities, flaws, & certain ways of doing things that make us who we are. Perfect pple & relationships only exist on tv. The most important thing is finding someone who loves u on ur worst days & will fight thru the hard times
if you’re around people who can confidently speak up when your behaviour is impacting them negatively, it means they have respect for themselves, and it means they are teaching you how to love them. because they value you enough to keep you in their lives.
hot girl summer but its me taking care of my emotional health, spending time under the sun, reading more, finding new things that make me happy, doing things that bring out good versions of myself
Regardless of it all I will say, I am learning every day, i am growing every day. Im far from the person I want to be for myself but i am damn proud of everything i have overcome.
im not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms because u’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..
one of my toxic traits is that when i'm going through something, i tend to stop talking to everyone until i'm okay. when i'm okay i'll start communicating again like nothing happened. it's not me being off with u, i just deal with things better when i'm alone.