“I lost myself in the relationship”
Biggest lie selfish women tell.
You didn’t lose yourself.
For once in your life you weren’t the main character.
A real relationship forces you to put someone else first.
If your parents always put you ahead of their marriage and your “friends” were just people pleasers, of course a masculine man with boundaries feels like death of who you were.
American women were sold the lie that “me me me” equals happiness.
It doesn’t.
The greatest betrayal doesn’t come from other people. It comes when you compromise yourself just to make others comfortable — comfortable in ways that dim your light.
You can see it right now in the brilliant minds who became government bloggers. They’re forced to defend things they don’t believe in. You can watch their light fade, slowly but surely, every time they say “Dad.”
For some, it’s easy. They never had a light to begin with. Those ones will flourish.
When a hyena hangs around lions, its life improves. But when a lion keeps hyena company, it slowly dies — of anger, and of hunger.
Very sad 😢😢.
You are literally standing on a planet that grows peaches.
PEACHES.
Not to mention cucumbers, strawberries, kale, apples, blueberries, and DRAGONFRUIT.
Out of dirt.
I cannot stress this enough.
DIRT.
You don't need to own anything to feel abundant, although if you feel abundant consistently things will almost certainly come to you. Abundance comes only to those who already have it. It sounds almost unfair, but of course it isn't. It is a universal law.
THE WORLD NEEDS TO HEAR YOUR VOICE
Speak up. Your opinion matters. Say what’s on your mind. Show them why they’re wrong. Self-esteem. Talk slowly. Argue only if necessary. Tell the truth. Be a black sheep. The underdog. Rise from the darkness. They don’t know your next move. Live authentically.
You’re constantly remaining silent when you know that you know better.
Others convinced you that you’re a nobody, that you have no talents, and that you should know your place.
Who are they to tell you what to do?
Huh?
Remember how talented and unique you are. Don’t let that potential go to waste because you were shy to shine.
Divorce is contagious.
“People are 75% more likely to become divorced if a friend is divorced and 33% more likely to divorce if a friend of a friend is divorced.
The contagion of divorce can spread through a social network, affecting friends up to two degrees removed.” — @robkhenderson
Life got dramatically better the moment I started acting like I was God's favorite masterpiece. Full irrational self belief before any evidence showed up to support it. You do not even have to believe it at first — just act like you do. Walk like it. Speak like it. Make decisions like it. Something shifts almost immediately. The way you carry yourself changes, the way people respond to you changes, the opportunities you reach for change. Delusional self belief is not a character flaw. It is the most underrated strategy in existence.
The goalkeeper you see prostrating in front of you is genuinely living the best days of his life.
This is Benjamin Asare, Ghana’s 33-year-old goalkeeper, who made three saves today and kept a clean sheet against England before celebrating after the game with this prostration.
What makes his story special is that almost nobody knew who he was. For most of his career, he played in Ghana’s second division. On top of that, his financial situation was so difficult that he had to work on cocoa farms for three straight years just to support his family and keep his football dream alive.
The remarkable part is that Asare kept pushing until he earned a move to Ghanaian top-flight side Accra Hearts of Oak in 2025. He then received his first-ever call-up to the Ghana national team during the World Cup qualifiers, where he played six games and conceded just one goal.
Asare went on to become the first Ghanaian player in history to represent his country at a World Cup while playing in the domestic league. He also made six saves across games against Panama and England and didn’t concede a single goal.
Glory to those who never stop working for their dreams. To every Ghanaian reading this: congratulations. You should be proud. Stories like Benjamin Asare’s are what make football beautiful, and seeing one of your own rise from cocoa farms to the World Cup stage is something worth celebrating. 🇬🇭❤️
You promised yourself you was going to move different this year. Don't forget that. Don't let old habits, old situations, or old patterns pull you back into the same stuff you said you was done with. Stay locked in on what you said you wanted and stand on it.