I can’t date a smoker and start complaining that they smoke. It’s either I accept them for who they are or look the other way.
Men will date a fat woman and start pressuring them to lose weight. Or a baddie and start trying to turn them into a Jesus babe.
It’s giving kolomental
not gonna lie, it really warms my heart when someone show me concern. i love it when they think of me and check if i am doing fine. it's just a small gesture of them but it touches my heart deeply.
the older you get, the more you realize it's not about who knows the longest. it's about who makes you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.
normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in YOU and your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you or how much you love them