I can not stand a fake ass girls girl 😤 just be real that men are a priority in your life. Don’t come at other women with “thanks for telling me, queen!” Then proceed to put yourself around an abuser that you were warned about lmao just slap a girl in the face next time.
“I got spanked, and I turned out fine” needs to be looked at deeper.
- Can you handle your emotions without having outbursts or meltdowns?
- What do your relationships look like?
- How do people close to you feel in your presence?
- Do your respect your body?
- Do you need substances to cope?
Fine can mean you exist in survival mode. Humans are meant to thrive. Abuse does not set up the foundation for us to thrive. It’s sets the foundation for shame, high defensiveness, and dysfunctional relationships.