Nobody tells you that some of your biggest milestones happen quietly. No party. No post. Just you, standing in your kitchen, realizing you finally feel okay.
being sensitive is so embarrassing like how am i supposed to tell you i'm upset just because your energy felt a little off and it made me feel unwanted
So you grew up over-prepared.
You move through life with backup plans for your backup plans.
You double-check doors, messages, emotions — everything.
You carry the weight of “I’ll handle it” even when you’re breaking inside.