You've been spending hours in worship and no matter how much you’ve been asking, there seems to be no response. Don’t get frustrated or impatient. The wait, the
“Everything is super important. Until you are sick. Then you realize there was only ever one thing that was important - your health.”
Do not take your good health for granted. Be selfish about your health.
I finally realized is that the best way to deal with ghosting is to ghost back. No questions, no overthinking, no seeking closure. Just return the energy.
This is your reminder to NEVER look back and save OR SPARE anybody that ever tried to sacrifice you in anyway. If they chose up over you, tried to hault your motion for theres, or sell you out… let them rot.
There are people who only know how to love the version of you that never says no. The moment you establish boundaries, protect your time, or stop solving their problems, they may accuse you of becoming selfish. What they call selfishness may simply be the first time you stopped sacrificing yourself to maintain their comfort.
In a year’s time, life will feel very different. Many of the things worrying you today will no longer matter. Life will have moved forward, and so will you.
Once you become financially free, you realize how much mental clarity simply had to do with being relaxed and having the time to think; and once you become a parent, you realize how much happiness simply had to do with having a loving "home" to go back to at the end of every day.
Spend one year becoming:
- Calm like a Stoic
- Playful like a child
- Patient like a farmer
- Focused like a monk
- Strong like an athlete
- Curious like a scientist
- Disciplined like a soldier
- Adaptable like an entrepreneur
It'll change your life.
you will eventually realize that everything is just a matter of time. every worry that you can possibly have will go away at some point. every problem has its day where it no longer is an issue. use this as a reminder to stop tripping over things that aren't going right.
Life is already hard enough. You shouldn’t have people around you who make it harder. Keep people who feel like home, bring you comfort, calm your mind, and make life feel lighter. Peace is not boring. It’s a blessing.
If you want to dramatically improve your quality of life, learn to recover your attention quickly after something steals it. Social media arguments, stressful thoughts, minor inconveniences. Most of it is noise that steals hours to days of enjoyment. Breathe and let it go.