Being in a relationship means you must love someone the way they need you to, not just in the way that is comfortable for you. Because it's a reminder that love is not only about what I prefer giving, it's also about how the other person actually receives it. Real love takes effort, emotional maturity, and the willingness to meet each other halfway, not just show up when it feels easy.
you can't scare away a man who actually likes you. you could yell, scream, ignore him, and throw a whole rock at his head. he'll still be like, "she's adorable, just a little angry today."