the couch is for being so exhausted and cozy you can’t possibly keep your eyes open. the bed is for laying wide awake tossing and turning in the throes of an existential crisis until the sun comes up
not dating to marry, not dating to break up, but a secret third thing (dating to enjoy being with a person you’re compatible with for as long as you both enjoy each other, no matter if that’s months or years or the rest of your lives)