@fApple_AD This ain't a "Oh you're not REALLY poly" thing, it's more that a lot of people that ARENT poly consider it interchangeable with "open" and get into it not understanding what's actually needed from them, which ends up hurting those who are legit poly in the relationship
@fApple_AD What I mean is that a lot of peeps think they want poly when in reality they want sex/attention; poly is real and valid, but too many people don't look past the sex/gratification and jump into relationship and end up hurting others when they don't take what they have seriously
@fApple_AD like wdym you have to actually care about your partners and give them affection and attention and look at them more than a trophy or fleshlight
@fApple_AD a lot of mfs get in them expecting monogamy dynamics when really a conversation with their partner about having an open-relationship woulda been much healthier
too many mfs confuse sexual attraction for rom compatibility/chemistry and lose the plot when it becomes more than sex
@RynoDoesPorn bouta pull up unregโd as god intended to pee in the bmi-check pool and grill quesabirria tacos for the homies on the grass by the party bloc
@SnowArctixFox@lace22l The recording struggle is so real; the amount of times Iโve done a playthrough and realized I recorded myself putting on the guitar and head instead of playing the music ๐๐