Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap.
Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap.
Pls help speak up.
46 children are in terrorists den.
46 children are in terrorists den.
46 children are in terrorists den.
The Nigerian Government is doing nothing.
46 children are in terrorists den.
46 children are in terrorists den.
46 children are in terrorists den.
The Nigerian Government is doing nothing.
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I'll always advice that giving out your very young daughter in marriage to a much older man should be carefully thought through.
I am presently chatting with a young wife that was married at 19 to a man that was 32.
4 years into their marriage, they have 2 kids and they're struggling to feed.
If she doesn't go out to fend for money, they'll all stay hungry.
Her husband is not doing anything and doesn't care. He just stays at home to watch TV and play games.
In 4 years, he'll be 40.
In 10 years, he'll be 50.
Marriage is a long-term affair, and you should not be deceived by the little money a man is showing off, just so you can give your daughter to him in marriage.
What he does legitimately for a living should be paramount. And do not give your young daughter out because of survival.
She'll tell you that she loves him bla bla bla, don't listen to her.
When a man in his 30s is coming for a young girl for marriage, he's most likely marrying her for survival.
And you'll notice these few years into their marriage. And what most of these men do is use their children as a "weapon".
They know that it's difficult for a mother to sleep when her children are hungry. If he is lazy or unemployed, he will hardly take serious steps to change the situation.
He'll start to depend on his wife, and even her siblings to feed their children.
And if his wife is not earning much money or she's jobless, where is he expecting her to get money from?
Now she's in my DM, complaining bitterly. The reason I am not sharing the DM is that her husband is also in this community. According to her, he is vehemently against what I teach about provision. Anyway, I have stated my own opinion.
While I agree that people's situations can change, and no one knows what tomorrow holds, we should take precautions and ask key questions as humans.
Many of you have sisters or someone you know who is suffering this same fate.
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