Kisah ashabul Kahf dikategori sebagai ujian aqidah kerana kisah mereka melindungi diri dari ancaman aqidah, masuk ke dalam gua. Lalu Allah tidurkan mereka selama 309 tahun.
Kisah penghuni dua kebun pula kerana mereka diuji mempunyai harta, lalu terus menafikan wujudnya hari
Dimana-mana pun perempuan kena labuhkan penutup kepala sehingga menutupi dada.
Allah ๏ทป kata dalam Al-Qurโan
ููููููุถูุฑูุจููู ุจูุฎูู ูุฑูููููู ุนูููููฐ ุฌููููุจูููููู...
โ...dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain kerudung (penutup kepala/khimฤr) ke dadanya..." (QS. An-Nur: 31)
Ini adalah hukum yang jelas daripada al-Qurโan dan ijmaโ bagi wanita untuk melabuhkan penutup kepala mereka sehingga menutup dadanya.
Tidak ada perbezaan mazhab dalam hal ini.
Catat keyword pentingnya.
"Jatuh miskin"
Bisa jadi saat nikah dan memulai rumah tangga, suami dlm keadaan mampu dan bisa menuhi semua kebutuhan.... until he can't.
Man to man, bro to bro :
This is our reality. There's no unconditional love for men whether you admit it or not.
โMen are like rocks, women are like water.โ
Read that again.
A rock doesnโt chase.
Doesnโt bend.
Doesnโt lose shape to be liked.
It stands.
Water?
It flows.
It tests.
It adapts to what it touches.
Hereโs the mistake most men make:
They become water.
Over-adjusting.
Over-explaining.
Over-chasing.
And then wonder why thereโs no respect.
Water doesnโt respect water.
It respects what it canโt move.
She will test you.
Push.
Pull.
Create emotional waves.
Not to destroy you
To see if you break.
If youโre unstable โ she becomes chaotic
If youโre weak โ she dominates
If youโre inconsistent โ she loses interest
If youโre solid?
She settles.
She softens.
She stays.
You donโt attract by chasing.
You attract by standing firm.
Be the rock.
Not the ripple.
Women sleep with whom they want; men sleep with whom they can. Note that.
Men marry who they want; women marry whom they can. Also, note that.
Men want women more than they need them; women need men more than they want them.
You want her.
She needs you.
You are the prize.
If a woman leaves you for another man and you start chasing her. You lose your dignity.
A woman doesn't leave a man for another man by accident. She studies you, she measures you, she compares you to him and then she decides to chose him.
The moment you start begging, texting paragraphs, asking for closure, trying to prove your worth, you confirm exactly why she left.
Because nothing looks weaker than a man chasing someone who already replaced him. Understand this,when a woman walks away from a man who knows his value, he doesn't chase. He upgrades. He gets sharper, stronger, richer, more disciplined.
-While weak men are crying in their car at midnight, strong men are in the gym at midnight.
-While weak men are stalking her Instagram, strong men are building businesses.
-While weak men are asking, why wasn't I enough? Strong men are asking, how powerful can I become?
Because chasing a woman who chose another man is like begging a job that already replaced you. You're not respected. You're just entertainment. And here's the truth about the modern world that nobody wants to say out loud. Men are struggling everywhere. Over 60% of young men are single today. Male suicide rates are four times higher than women. Men are falling behind in college, careers, purpose, discipline and instead of fixing their lives, too many men are chasing women who already chose someone else.
That is backwards. Your mission was never to chase women. Your mission is God. Your mission is legacy. Your mission is wealth. Your mission is fitness. Your mission is purpose. Because when a man becomes disciplined, dangerous, and focused, he doesn't chase attention,he attracts respect.
Remember this, the woman who left you didn't destroy your life. She revealed your weakness. Now the question is simple. Are you going to stay broken or become unstoppable?
You decide!!
She doesnโt have as many good options as you think.
Most guys assume that if a girl is decent-looking, she has tons of high-quality men lining up for her.
The truth is usually very different.
Even attractive girls often have very few good options. Hereโs why:
Saya pernah lalui fasa hidup yang rasa sempit.
Seperti orang lain, saya baca surah al-Waqi'ah untuk murah rezeki.
Tapi masa baca surah ini, saya terjumpa tiga soalan yang Allah SWT tanya dan soalan ini jadikan saya rasa tidak selesa untuk menjawabnya.