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@SoccerBeatZA This would be good news. Coach Broos played his part, and we appreciated it. It's time we let him go to retirement and take on Coach Pitso for us to get to the next level.
@PhilMphela If they were really trying to silence her by threatening her career, then the industry has a far bigger problem than just the allegations themselves. Nobody should have to choose between speaking up and surviving professionally.
Exactly 25 years ago today, I scored my first — and only — professional goal.
Contrary to what I believed at the time, goalkeepers are not allowed to handle the ball in both penalty areas.
The goal was disallowed and I was sent off — still it earned me legendary status. 😉
#otd
🚨3 Lessons ALL MEN Should Take from Pep Guardiola’s failed MARRIAGE⤵️
Guardiola is the manager of Manchester City who met his wife in 1994
1. He met her when he was 18 years old while playing for Barcelona. They started dating since 1994 and married in 2014, 20 year later. Some people are in relationships or marriage today and are still stucked in this idea that knowing or being with someone for a very long time means their love life would be happily ever after.
2. The ex wife was a fashionista who came from a well to do family. Marrying the most beautiful woman or a rich man will not spear you from eating breakfast
When the Ex wife was quizzed after being spotted by a reporter. She said:
“My parents have always advised me to find what I am passionate about”
Now Guardiola is worth $60million, they have three kids, family and being together for 30 years. Still, it wasn’t enough, something was missing
What was missing? A close friend of Guardiola when interviewed said the marriage ended because “He’s a total workaholic and it took a toll on his relationship”
Some men are out there working so hard for the sake of their family but have ungrateful wives at home.
For most women a perfect husband means, a man who is home to make dinner for his beloved wife, go to the movies together while holding hands and change dippers.
And there’s nothing wrong with wanting all that but when choosing a wife make sure you know what she desires. Be on the same page.
3. Know what you want.
Majority of people don’t know what is priority for them. Do you want a rich man who is a workaholic or an average guy who have all the time to spend with you but can’t provide a luxury lifestyle? Don’t marry a Guardiola then leave him after 30 years of marriage for not making enough time. This is applicable to both men and women!
Don’t get it twisted, being rich is not enough but a quality to have on the side to strike the balance as required for the relationship to thrive
Everyone was wondering the reason for Guardiola’s downfall in football, he started acting strangely, there was a time he scratched his own face with his nails after just a draw in a match. After games, he sits alone for a long time deep in thoughts and was even mocked he would be sack by fans. No one knew he was going through marital struggles
He lost his largest mansion, half of his fortune, lost his children, his family and perhaps his club soon by 2027.
Men absorbes so much struggles, it doesn’t matter what you feel, get up and get it done. Being a man is not about not feeling things, it about feeling things and still acting like a man.
Sometimes people say I act like I don’t have feelings. I feel things, all the pains and emotions but it won’t stop me from getting things done. Welcome to the brotherhood!
Eddie Murphy married Nicole Mitchell in 1993 at the height of his fame. At the time, Eddie Murphy wasn’t just a successful actor, he was one of the most powerful & highest-paid men in Hollywood. The marriage produced 5 children, and for years, from the outside, everything looked stable, protected, and structured.
But years later, the marriage ended.
When Nicole filed for divorce, the court awarded her a massive settlement — reportedly around 15 million dollars. On paper, that kind of money looks like lifetime security. To many people, it sounds like freedom, independence, and “winning” after divorce.
But money without structure, guidance, and protection can quietly turn into a liability.
After the divorce, Nicole chose to help a childhood friend by entrusting him with about 11 million dollars to invest overseas. This wasn’t a stranger. It was someone she trusted emotionally — someone from her past. Unfortunately, that trust was misplaced. The investment turned out to be a scam. The money was lost, and the man was later arrested and sentenced to 22 years in prison.
By the time the truth surfaced, the damage was already done.
Within a few years, reports surfaced that Nicole was financially strained. She eventually had to put her home up for sale and was said to owe the IRS hundreds of thousands of dollars in back taxes. A woman who once walked away from a marriage with tens of millions found herself under pressure, exposed, and vulnerable.
This isn’t about mocking her situation.
It’s about understanding a pattern many people don’t like to talk about.
After divorce, many women — especially those who were previously protected by a strong, structured male presence — suddenly have to navigate the world alone. Not just emotionally, but financially, legally, and strategically. And that transition isn’t as simple as people make it sound.
A man doesn’t only provide money.
He provides discipline, risk assessment, boundaries, and insulation from bad decisions. When that structure disappears, emotional decision-making often replaces logical decision-making. Trust gets misplaced. Friends replace advisors. Feelings replace strategy.
That’s when vulnerability creeps in.
Many women only truly recognize the importance of a man in their lives after that man is gone — not because they can’t survive alone, but because life is harsher, colder, and far less forgiving without solid leadership and protection.
Divorce doesn’t automatically mean freedom.
Sometimes, it simply means exposure.
And the world is full of people waiting to take advantage of exposed individuals — especially those who look wealthy but lack strong guidance.
That’s the uncomfortable truth people don’t like to discuss.
Kgante how many times has this Nobert Zapambela guy been arrested for snatching phones?
He gets beat up when caught and after he heals he is back at it again. It's a career!
Total middle finger to the justice system in this country.
Recidivism is another major problem in curbing crime in South Africa.
Another reminder
This December
We give more respect to those unemployed brothers left at home
That brother who look after our homes while we hustling in the cities and keep everyone safe
We stop this mentality of only respecting rich family and forget those heroes ..☝️