Lo siento, pero es que lleva razón.
Tienes pareja. Le pides tener sexo. Te dice que no. Y tú sigues insistiendo, insistiendo e insistiendo hasta que acaba cediendo solo para que te calles la puta boca, dejes de manosearla y la dejes en paz. No está teniendo sexo contigo porque quiera tenerlo; lo está haciendo para que pares.
Quizá algunos no lo llamarían violación. Pero que esto forma parte de la cultura de la violación es una realidad como una casa. La chica no está diciendo ninguna barbaridad.
¿Qué es exactamente lo que os sorprende de lo que expone? ¿Que, como es tu pareja, según vosotros ya no puede existir coerción? ¿Que una relación te da algún tipo de derecho sobre el cuerpo de la otra persona?
Porque no. Que sea tu pareja no te da ningún poder sobre ella ni convierte su cuerpo en algo a tu disposición. Y si ya te ha dicho UNA vez que NO, ¿por qué sigues insistiendo?
¿Dónde está la contradicción en sus palabras? Porque yo no la veo.
CEDER POR AGOTAMIENTO O PRESIÓN NO EQUIVALE A UN DESEO LIBRE.
the reason men don’t view coercion as rape is because they genuinely don’t see it as wrong. so much of male sexuality is informed by rape culture that coercion is seen as a normal part of courting a woman. it’s why women who willingly sleep with men are sluts, whores, etc.
Growing up, my boy cousins would play superheroes, then notice us girls were painting our nails & join in. One day 2 of them dressed up as princesses. My brother sometimes had me dress him as a girl, he found it as fun as any other make believe.
That stopped with a quickness the second they went to school.
That's how you know it's socialized. The men freaking out over this have been trained within an inch of their lives to a) view femininity as inferior & b) wrap their entire identities around NOT BEING FEMININE.
Some people aren't feminine, to be fair. I'm hardly the girliest person myself. But if I could dress up as monsters from Zelda dungeons to play with my little bro, men can let their daughters do their makeup. It's seriously not a big deal & you're still a Man ™️
(Also not a big deal if a man doesn't want to, but foaming from the mouth over it screams insecure, not manly 🤷🏻♀️)
In the same way, people who are brutally honest are never brutally honest about praising you or being kind. It's always the bad stuff they have to say that they feel the inability to temper.
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Yeah because the insane speed, ease and scale of output surely has no detrimental effect on how widespread the abuse is.
You have no worthwhile safeguards halting said abuse, some of which is criminal. This is the usual dumb-guy philosophy being weaponized as an excuse.