You tell people the RAW, UNFILTERED TRUTH about the dating market and instead of facing reality, they tell you your mouth is smelling!!!
“Men dey!!!”
“Women no dey finish!!!”
Everybody is shouting that good men and good women are scarce, yet everybody wants a partner they are not even ready to be!!!
Social media and stupid teachings from feminism and traditional men have poisoned people’s understanding of love!!!
Most people have replaced commitment with materialism, sacrifice with selfishness and genuine love with lust!! Everybody wants to enjoy dating and marriage, but nobody wants to do the dirty work that keeps a relationship/marriage alive!!!
Again, if your goal is to build a healthy family and raise children in a solid, united home, you must be ready to kill your pride, bury your selfishness and abandon this foolish spirit of self-preservation!!!
YOUNG MEN!!!
You will lay the bed…
You will bathe your children…
You will wash plates…
You will cook when necessary…
You will sacrifice your comfort, your time, your money, and your energy!!!
You are not less of a man because you serve your family! You are a failure when your ego becomes more important than your home!!! This is what you are even called to do!!!
YOUNG WOMEN!!!
You may have to pay rent…
You will cook even when you are tired…
You will spend your own money to keep the family running…
You will sacrifice your personal comfort…
You will carry responsibilities you never imagined you would have to carry…
You are not less of a woman because you provide! You are not a fool because you sacrifice for the family you claim to love!!!
RESPONSIBILITY DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR NATURE, YOUR MOOD, YOUR GENDER OR HOW YOU WERE RAISED!!!
When your family needs you, you show up…
When the bills come, somebody must pay…
When the baby cries, somebody must wake up…
When the house is a mess, somebody must clean it…
When life gets hard, somebody must stand firm…
You cannot keep shouting “This is not my role!” and using social media as your standard while drowning in loneliness and helplessness.
You cannot demand sacrifice while worshipping your comfort…
You cannot demand loyalty while your pride makes you impossible to live with…
Drop your pride!!!
Drop the entitlement!!!
Drop the social media nonsense!!!
Drop feminism!!!
Drop useless culture and tradition!!!!
Stop keeping score of every little sacrifice!!!
Hopefully, you listen to me while you still have time!!!
Change or die!!!!!!!!!
"Victor, you are worse than a salary earner. Your source of income is from one customer, and it is not stable." - Theo Amadi, 1995.
Those words proved true: the business failed some years later, not only due to overreliance on a single customer and a lack of scale, but also due to inexperience.
Three decades later, I am seeing the same mistake repeated by others, and I still sometimes default to the same pattern myself out of habit.
You must sell and sell to many regularly. No single customer is big enough for a business to stop selling to others. Getting large clients and focussing too much on them always seems pragmatic, but it is the most dangerous thing to do when you are small and replaceable.
The modern-day version of one customer is also focused on using a single sales or marketing channel. Millions of people are fighting for attention on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter; your small venture doesn't have to join in the noise unless it has a unique message and following. This is where so many people (myself included) typically get it wrong.
My cousin, who sells bedsheets and household goods, once told me that even though he has millions of followers on other platforms, his highest conversion and sales come from LinkedIn.
It is a cringy place that we all dump on all the time, but most of my inbound private consulting bookings have surprisingly come from there. What I do these days is test things and perfect them here before I take them to LinkedIn.
This is a million dollars in consulting advice given for zero cents.
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