In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT