First step
Realize what other people say in the conversations you're awkwardly eavesdropping on and how simple and stupid these things are most times. And that a few interest points easily flow.
Second step
Figure out what interest points you know about or even care about. Be yourself not someone else. You won't fit in with everyone and it will be much harder to do step 3 if youre in places youre uncomfortable.
Step 3
Just start talking. You'll mess up sometimes just like you did when you started walking and then were later yelled at for running in the grocery store. You'll figure out whats acceptable when.
Step four
Don't forget to be yourself and joking while following the where am I type of rules.
Step 5
Be in the present so you can respond. If you're in your head you'll be late / quiet / broken voice when you go to talk. Practice in the mirror if you gotta.
As a chef...
you can immediately put things in the fridge if they are not fully covered. If they are fully covered the food can steam the top of the container basically and stay hotter for way longer. This is actually a common cause for botulism bacteria and salmonella (Still rare but there)
To avoid food steam in the fridge and be more sanitary yes let it cool on the counter first. You have 2 hours to safely bring from 140 to 70. 2 hours for 70 to 39. Flatter containers with more surface area will cool soups faster than tall ones.
Always reheat to 145!
They are actually the same issue lol
Girls who have no hip dips will naturally have a thigh gap at a much higher body fat because of hip structure and most likely muscular hypertrophy of some degree helping to sculpt for the last few points.
Losing a lot of weight only gives hip dips if you have an anterior pelvic tilt. With regular standing from a hip angle perspective they will disappear if you dont have the proper hip structure.
Its like skinny abs vs muscular abs. One you get by not eating and it frankly doesn't look right at all because the muscle bellies arent grown. Once you get muscular its *tada* genetics that make them show at higher body fat% and can make them look fuller. Same with hip dips.
If the projection here is "I think im ugly so men wont sleep with me or date me, they are shallow"
Youre probably just a boring femcel tbh. Being fun to be around will get you laid/boyfriends.
So yeah, youre still the shallow one. Stop projecting and start being! It'll come.
a man decides if he wants to date you based entirely on your looks right off the bat but if a woman factors money into this equation she’s the shallow one somehow
You just admitted you dont see boobs unless they are online so how would you really know which you are??
Two if by stating I like it online so I like it in person, do you like the women you beat off too online irl? Or do you hate their personalities?
Seriously curious
A lot actually... lol more of them have said something than not.
Ive also definitely had girls over i weren't sure about at the house, freeballed it and by the end of night shes staring at it/ends up grabbing it out the blue.
Its gotta be nice though same with ass for women.
The only advice for dating to live your life to have FUN. Do you know how to have fun by yourself or carry conversation?
Can you exist next to a woman and her fall in love? No? Then youre off. Lol Be a thing people wanted to be attracted to and its easy.
I kind of resent the fact that practically every piece of dating advice I’ve ever heard seems to revolve around “kill the sensitive young man inside you”
Had a threesome one time where the shit the girls were doing was making nervous so I couldn't finish and they were literally yelling at me to get off but not letting up at all, an hr total. After it was over they left and I was fetal position in the bed.
Low key traumatic 🤣
I know a girl who got raped by this dude and when her life fell apart and she got fat she ended up getting with him about 10 years later near her 30s.
They are married now.
Most times if its like this but the girl always texts back she just genuinely sucks at texting or is a boring person. Apply the "fuckboy mentality" of only texting her to hang out or being uncaring about how she responds and it all fades away.
Reciprocate whatever she does.
Women will ask why men stop replying to their texts, and then you see the screenshots and it’s her giving short/dry responses expecting the guy to carry the conversation