My Dearest Sister,
May Allah grant you a man who listens to everything you say, even the small things, even the stories you think are silly,
even the worries you’re afraid to voice.
A man who pays attention,
not because your words are perfect, but because you matter to him.
Because your comfort matters,
your heart matters,
and your presence is a blessing to him.
May Allah grant you a man who leans in when you speak,
who remembers what you said weeks ago,
who notices when your voice cracks,
who sees your silence and understands it
before you even explain.
May Allah grant you a man whose gentleness is not weakness but mercy, whose patience is not forced, but natural, whose love is not loud but consistent the kind rooted in taqwa.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.”
(Tirmidhi)
So may Allah write for you a man who lives this hadith,
a man who honours you, protects you, respects you,
and treats you as an amanah entrusted to him by Allah.
And until that man comes,
may Allah fill your heart with peace, contentment, and the certainty that what He withholds is never a loss, only a protection. And what He gives is always better than what you prayed for.
Dinner dates are classy, sophisticated and IG worthy but more than dinners at fancy restaurants, I want us to have fun . Museum dates, bowling dates, camping, book reads,wine tasting, karaoke nights , car drives.
I do not want us to spend our outings sitting across each other and needing to talk all the time. I want us to laugh hard , to be messy and get excited about new things.
Our lives together should never have to be boring.
Girl to girl: It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that
It's a healthy assumption.
Nurses have a conventional outfit.
And it's not scrubs.
It's a certain white gown.
Surgeons are those who get recognized by scrubs.
It's a recent thing for nurses to begin wearing scrubs.
I personally think they should stop.