the concept of loving BTS without feeling entitled to their personal lives, obsessing over their sexuality, appearance, clothes, friendships, or every little thing they do just simply respecting them as human beings while supporting their music.
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we love you namjoon
we love you seokjin
we love you yoongi
we love you hobi
we love you jimin
we love you taehyung
we love you jungkook
we love you bangtan โก
a lot of yโall overstep the boundaries of being a fan. what you want is control. you view yourselves as the moral authority and want to use your will to force bts to make what you deem are the correct choices or else.
โbts need to be educatedโ โwe need to find a way to reach them so they start making better decisionsโ
do yโall hear yourselves and how insane you sound? as a fan you arenโt entitled to tell bts how to live their lives, where to go, what to do, what friends to have, how to manage their careers. yโall gotta put your phones down and touch some damn grass because the parasocial is getting out of hand. the way so many of you speak about bts is no different then the way kpoppies harass, degrade and belittle their idols.
one thing our fandom needs to learn to do is to stop having quick responses to everything. self-regulate. not every personal opinion needs to be made public. sometimes for the sake of btsโ reputation and public image itโs best to just keep your mouth shut. at some point we have to be honest with ourselves and admit often times itโs us who are the problem and are the driving force behind the hate from kpop stans and negative press because our overreactions draw attention to things that would otherwise be left in the internet void which then fuels the public harassment.
you have every right to be bothered or uncomfortable with certain things without turning it into the next anti-bts smear campaign.
and one thing yโall have to come to terms with and this applies to any celebrity not just bts: yโall gotta stop putting celebrities on a pedestal and viewing them as some sort of beacon of virtue. you wonโt constantly be disappointed in the choices celebrities make if you stop treating them as your personal moral compass for whatโs right.
"disappointed in him" "he did this" "let's take banner" "let's stop streaming"
My dude isn't losing a single stream because the loud ones on here rn never streamed for him.
WE LOVE YOU BTS
WE LOVE YOU KIM NAMJOON
WE LOVE YOU KIM SEOKJIN
WE LOVE YOU MIN YOONGI
WE LOVE YOU JUNG HOSEOK
WE LOVE YOU PARK JIMIN
WE LOVE YOU KIM TAEHYUNG
WE LOVE YOU JEON JUNGKOOK
I donโt like the phrase โhold them accountableโ in this situation because Hobi and Joon didnโt do anything. Is this an unsavory look? Yes, but donโt say hold them accountable as if they beat up women, like, words matter and we need to take a step back and think
stop scrolling through your tl full of negativity and just stop for a second and listen to this until the very end.
๐จ: in anywhere, in this whole earth, stay safe, get happy. just focus on positive vibes. I know itโs hard, but you know, life is too short to focus on the negatives. you guys are the ones that made us here today. morning is a pain, life is about, um, unfair, lot of unlock, dramas, happiness and joy is really short. but, you know, we met each other, sooo weโre making something great. I think thatโs all I wanted to say. and I love you