Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.
When someone you love offers a bid for connection, you say yes every time. When someone sends you an article, a video, a funny post, itโs a bid for connection. They are trying to connect with you. When someone shares details about their day, their life, their thoughts, or their feelings with you, that is a bid for connection. They want to connect with you on a deeper level. They are trying to pull you into their world. If you love them, you say yes every time. Yes, even if the article they send is not particularly interesting to you. Yes, even if it means listening to them ramble about a game you donโt care about and think is stupid. Yes yes yes. And letโs hope they always say yes to your bids, too.
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The strangest thing about this movie is Selma Blair was 28 when it was filmed but is playing a 14 year old and when you really center that fact her whole performance becomes incredibly camp.