Fellow leaders, let’s quit assuming that the reason we feel lonely is because leadership is lonely. Bull. It’s usually because we put ourselves above the regular people who have real live relationships & ask about one another instead of listening to us just talk about ourselves.
Never underestimate the power of an apology. Few of us will want to pump our fists & cheer on our deathbeds, “Woohoo! I never did say I was sorry for that!” The proud are so lonely. They won’t admit it but they are. No one’s more alone than the one who views an apology as caving.
The greatest nightmare of the approval addict is rejection; of the power addict, humiliation; of the comfort addict, suffering; and of the control addict, uncertainty.
So was talking w a friend today who suggested that if we really want abortions to stop we should imprison every man who impregnates a woman who doesn’t want to be pregnant. Hmm. That might do it.
God can, he does, and will continue to use counseling to help his children .
The Christian getting counseling hasn’t limited God. The one who believes God can’t use anything has.
I want to ask a favor of you friends. Accept that I’ll always have haters. The best thing to do with most is to ignore them. Attention’s what they want. A brother said recently, You have 2 huge strikes against you, Beth. You are a strong female.
Accept the hate. Love the haters.
Seems fitting that I read these two lines from Zach Eswine this morning.
“It is an act of faith and wisdom to be sad about sad things.”
“In this fallen world, sadness is an act of sanity, our tears the testimony of the sane.”
Come, Lord Jesus.
On Aug. 1, 1619, the first recorded shipment of Africans as slaves arrived in Jamestown, VA. Today marks the 400th anniversary of the beginning of the Transatlantic slave trade. Some 10-12 millions Africans were shipped in the trade before its abolition. https://t.co/TujzVKJZ4s
Of all the things I find disturbing about contemporary discourse, I worry most about professing Christians' inability to change their minds & admit mistakes.