To any young kid reading this…
I’ve doubted myself in every league I’ve ever played in.
Ryman Prem.
Conference South.
League Two.
League One.
Championship…
And even right before my first Premier League start last night.
That’s not weakness.
That’s being human.
That’s being alive.
When I was growing up, I thought Premier League players were superhuman.
Like they never felt doubt.
Like they never felt nerves.
The truth is…. it’s often the opposite.
Social media won’t tell you that sometimes you step out there with no confidence. That’s normal. That’s ok!
You now have to then step out there with courage.
Confidence feels good.
Courage doesn’t.
But you do it anyway. Show courage enough times…. You build confidence.
Here’s the mindset that’s carried me for 31 years.
When it goes well:
I worked for it.
I earned it.
Well done.
Watch it back.
Get better.
When it doesn’t:
I know I prepared the best I could.
It didn’t go exactly to plan. That’s football.
But Well done.
Watch it back.
Get better.
That simple recipe gave me a special moment last night.
Leading the team out.
Playing alongside a group that fights for every ball.
Celebrates tackles.
Gives everything for the city of Sunderland.
And sharing it with supporters who never gave up, even after four tough seasons in League One.
So if you’re a young player feeling doubt…
Low confidence…
Or like you don’t believe in yourself…
You’re not alone.
Every player feels it.
Confidence isn’t something you’re given.
It’s something you build.
Bit by bit.
Day by day.
With courage.
With work.
With learning.
Anything worth building takes time.
But that’s what makes it so worthwhile!
Thank you @SunderlandAFC ❤️🤍
@SmokeyEarl He could have done, but the fact he was ghosted past on numerous occasions by the Sunderland LWB suggests that my nan must have been unavailable due to the fact she had to shampoo her rabbits.
An absolute rocket in our opening @scfyl_official game winning 3-2 at @bruneluni under the lights!
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Another quality display from our young @SCFYL_official#boro players this week against @fc_hilltop U18. All but three of the match day squad are 16yrs old, with three making their debut and two of those scoring! Proven pathway for players to develop toward first team football.
Fantastic performance from @hbfc1872 U18’s tonight in the @ACYFLofficial league cup against @sloughtownfc U18’s going through to the next round with a 3-1 win. Credit to the lads really stuck to the task and kept playing the right way. ⚽️⚽️