I feel no anger, only pity. I am not being manipulated. I do not wear a mask. I am happy. I am free from the r****t, the Scunthorpe bus driver. #nomorenarcs
The state of the comments on this post. Bunch of weirdos. How about you post the pics of him laughing & smiling ,you know, being happy. But that wouldn't suit your narrative, would it. Shit like this is why they left. #CoronationDay#HarryandMeghan
If I ever feel down. I remember the most ridiculously unbelievable story the narc ever told me and I just laugh & laugh ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ Fucking weird family...... #narcissists#talltales
Only 4 people in the world I care about their opinion of me. 3 of them I gave birth to. I get rid of people at the first sign of disrespect now. People can create their own narrative based on a past me. Because they have no idea who I am anymore. #freedom#opinions
Normalize being ok with letting people think what they want about you. The idea that we're going to be liked, validated, or accepted by everyone is an illusion. Our peace, mental health and happiness is more important than other people's perceptions, opinions, or approval of us.
The thing is, they take all your memories of โgood timesโ too. There were never any good times; they were illusions designed to entrap you and to make you stay.
Narcissists will constantly make passive aggressive comments, but if you ever say anything about their covert attacks/negging, they will say that you are โmaking a big deal of itโ or that you are โtrying to be a victimโ to gaslight you into believing that you are overreacting.
Haha true story. Imagine being 30, 40, 50 and so on and still having tantrums. Soooooo glad I don't know him anymore. He will HATE getting older ๐ #Narcissist#littleman#abuser
Regardless of how mentally functioning they might appear to be, narcissists have the emotional intelligence of a young, petulant child, and they will never genuinely become more aware or mature beyond that.
Coercive control is not some extra thing that abusers do that we can chose to take into account or not.
It is very severe abuse. It is human rights violations. It is torture.
The perpetrator attacks everything that makes the target who they are as a person.