Bhadra Jayakumar Sandhya

[Chaos @kizzriee]

"Not all men are dangerous."
Okay, then hire a male nanny for your 3-year-old daughter. Hire a male caregiver for your sick mother Send your daughter to a male massage therapist and wait outside without worrying. Take your 8-year-old daughter to a male gynaecologist instead of a female one. Let your 14-year-old daughter hang out alone with a group of grown men. Leave your teenage daughter alone with a male tutor you barely know.

[victoria ♀️ @fatfabfeminist]

not even the dignity of a head. this is what men view us as. the dehumanization of the female body should repulse you all

[💗 @ma1ybe]

someone has to tell them

[smol silly cat @Catsillyness]

It's them!

[jezz @JezziiB]

Well well well, look who actually has a biological clock... 🤡🤡

[໊ @oockreg]

Girls… have you ever tried talking to men in their own language?

I did yesterday
“I don’t do drama. Text me when you’re calm. If you don’t like it find someone else”
And when he sent a long emotional message…I didn’t reply
He lost it

Not because it was “mean”
But because for once
he wasn’t the one in control
Funny how that works

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

Men: “When girls go out wearing tiny, tight, skimpy outfits… they could choose something less provocative, so they’re basically asking for it.”

So by that logic, if I see you out in public without protective headgear, does that give me the right to smash your head? I mean, you chose not to protect yourself, right?

That’s how absurd that reasoning sounds when you apply it anywhere else.

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

Men call women Sluts without any proof, but needs mountains of evidence to believe a man is a rapist That's not logic - that's misogyny

[Queeneth @Queeneth01olx]

I helped a woman escape an abusive marriage.

Found her an apartment. Paid the deposit. Moved her in myself.

Months later, the trauma bond pulled her back in. She told him everything I did.

Then, the husband showed up at my door.

She was my neighbor before the escape. I heard things through our walls I can’t unhear.

One night it got bad enough that I knocked.

She opened the door, terrified, and whispered, “We were just arguing.” I didn’t push.

But I left my number.

Three weeks later, at 1am, she finally called.

I moved quietly.

> Didn’t involve her family. She said they’d send her back.
> Didn’t call the police. She begged me not to.

I used my own money and my own connections. Got her out in 48 hours. She was free. New place. New number. New start.

I checked on her every week. She seemed okay. Then one month she stopped picking up.

I assumed she needed space to heal.

Later, a mutual friend called me.

Did you know she went back? I sat with that for a long time. The cycle of abuse is a powerful, terrible thing.

Two weeks later, a knock on my door. Her husband. Calm voice. Dangerous eyes.

I just want to talk about what you did to my family.

I won’t share everything that was said that day.

But in that moment I understood something deep: When you help someone who isn’t ready to be helped, you absorb their consequences.

I don’t regret getting her out. If someone asks for a lifeline, you throw it.

But I learned a hard and uncomfortable truth that day;

You cannot want someone’s freedom more than they want it for themselves.

That experience taught me how to love people well and protect my own peace at the same time.

Now I know exactly when to throw the lifeline… and when to pray from a distance and keep my own door locked.

She’s still with him. I pray for her every single day.

But I moved apartments, protected my peace, and kept the lesson.

Some life lessons cost you your safety… but the wisdom you gain from them becomes armor for the next person who needs you.

Have you ever had to learn the balance between helping someone and protecting yourself?

[໊ @oockreg]

Yesterday I was spiraling because the world is terrible. I turned to my husband and said “what do we do?” Later we were paying for our sushi and a woman was on the phone upset because her card declined as she was with her kids for lunch. My husband quietly told the waitress that he would pay for their meal, but not to tell them until we were gone. In the car he turned to me and said “Remember what you asked me earlier? That’s what we do. We show kindness no matter what.” I love that man.

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

I grew up on love l'Il do anything for you.
These people grew up on survival - they'll do anything to you. That's why intentions don't match. I move off loyalty. They move off self-preservation. Pay attention to the difference!!

[Maryam @hell_line0]

Well, when a child is conceived, the DNA split is 50/50 from both parents. Except for one small detail: mitochondrial DNA. It’s passed down only through the mother and never through sperm.
Which means something interesting: all living humans can trace their mitochondrial line back to one woman, not one man.
And every daughter born continues passing that same line forward.
Happy Women’s Day 💐

[Cyber_Racheal @CyberRacheal]

😂 If you understand this, explain it