Lately, I’ve found myself thinking about the countless business dinners and social meals my parents attended during their early years in America.
Before ordering, my mother would invariably tell the server: “We are strictly vegetarian. No meat, no chicken, no fish, no eggs.”
She might then remind them—no beef stock, no gelatin…and list all the ways in which meat might be hidden in our food.
As a child, I often felt a twinge of embarrassment when she said it. I worried that we were making things difficult, creating extra work for the wait staff, drawing attention to ourselves in a way I wished we wouldn’t.
What I didn’t appreciate then was how much courage that simple sentence required. Especially when social pressures and convention would invite conformity. Instead they were often forced to answer a set of uncomfortable, sometimes ignorant questions:
“Have you always been a vegetarian?”
“How do you get protein?”
“Have you ever tried meat?”
“Don’t you know you’re missing out?”
And then they quietly would use the moment to share our belief system.
My parents arrived in a country where fitting in would have been easier than standing apart.
They could have quietly relaxed their commitments.
They could have decided that some traditions were not worth carrying across an ocean.
Instead, they held fast to a faith and culture rooted in nonviolence, one that called them to remain strictly vegetarian even when it was inconvenient, awkward, or misunderstood.
I don’t judge those who made different choices.
Every immigrant family navigates these questions in its own way.
But looking back, I see that what embarrassed me as a child was actually an expression of conviction.
Every child of immigrants, I suspect, wants their parents to adapt a little more, to blend in a little better.
We feel the friction when they don’t.
Yet now, whenever my wife and I sit down with friends or colleagues and hear ourselves say, “We are strictly vegetarian. No meat, no chicken, no fish, no eggs,” I feel something entirely different.
I feel gratitude.
What once sounded to me like a dietary restriction now sounds like an inheritance.
A small sentence.
A quiet act of conviction.
A reminder that my parents carried more than suitcases when they came to this country—they carried their beliefs.
And they had the courage to keep carrying them.
Indian-American couple Brij Agarwal and Sunita Agarwal have donated $5.5 million to expand healthcare services in Texas, including support for St. Luke's Health–Sugar Land Hospital and a new primary care clinic.
Funny how stories like this rarely go viral. The same people obsessed with pushing anti-India narratives won't be making podcasts or headlines about Indian-Americans funding hospitals, improving healthcare access, and giving back to the communities that helped them succeed.
The donation is the largest single gift in the hospital's history, with its main patient tower and pavilion now being named in the Agrawals' honour.
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