Biblical Gender Roles

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Your argument fails because Scripture does not require every sin to have a specifically stated civil punishment attached to it in order for it to be sinful.
Take prostitution for example. Paul explicitly condemns men going to prostitutes in 1 Corinthians 6. Why? Is it merely because money changed hands? No. Paul’s entire argument is that a man is becoming ‘one flesh’ with a woman outside the marriage covenant.
Yet where in the Mosaic Law is there a prescribed civil punishment for a man visiting a prostitute? There isn’t one.
So are you going to argue God approved prostitution simply because no judicial penalty was attached to it? Of course not.
The point is that prostitution is condemned for the same reason all fornication is condemned: two people becoming one flesh outside of marriage. Your argument wrongly assumes that if Scripture does not prescribe a punishment for a particular sexual sin, then God must approve of it. That logic simply does not hold up biblically.

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I didn’t assign men the role of leaders, providers and protectors, nor women the role of wives, mothers and homemakers — God did. And because God assigned these roles, they are moral roles, not merely personal preferences.
Scripture says men are to provide for and care for their households:
“He that provideth not for his own… hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” — 1 Timothy 5:8
Husbands are also called to sacrificial leadership and protection:
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” — Ephesians 5:25
And Scripture explicitly calls women to marriage, motherhood and care of the home:
“I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house…” — 1 Timothy 5:14
“That they may teach the young women… to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home…” — Titus 2:4-5
This modern idea that all roles are interchangeable and that God has no distinct design for men and women is not biblical Christianity — it is modern egalitarian ideology imposed onto the Bible.
You may dislike God’s design, but don’t pretend Christians invented it. Scripture assigned these roles long before modern feminism existed.

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"Unpaid labor" - so a woman should receive a paycheck for caring for her own children, cooking meals for herself, her children and her husband? Like she is a hired maid and nanny and these people are not her own family? What stupidity. So in your mind, it would be better for her to go work a full time job like her husband and then they pay someone else to do the "labor" of caring for her children and her home as long as everyone is getting a "paid" for their labor? Do you even understand the absurdity of your position?

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Corporal punishment is not inherently abuse. Abuse is the unjust, cruel, or uncontrolled use of physical force. Scripture distinguishes between abusive violence and lawful discipline or punishment.
In fact, God prescribed corporal punishment in the Old Testament not only for children, but also as a civil punishment carried out by governing authorities in Israel’s theocracy (Deuteronomy 25:1–3).
Modern society rejects almost all forms of corporal punishment, but I personally believe many communities would be better off if limited corporal punishment were restored for certain crimes instead of relying almost entirely on imprisonment.

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So Israel is the only nation in the world who holds these wicked views on abortion and homosexuality? No one else holds these wicked views? No one ever held these wicked views before the Israel existed? Wait...I think there was these places called Sodom and Gommorah and held these views long before Israel existed.

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Every bad judge is Jewish and every non-Jewish judge is a saint. Every bad decision comes from one group while everyone else just stumbles into perfection. Complex civilizations rise and fall over thousands of years, but actually it’s all secretly controlled by a tiny group the whole time. Millions of independent decisions across governments, courts, and cultures—none of it is real agency, it’s always someone else pulling the strings.

Bad ideas never ever originate in the West itself either… they’re always imported by one convenient villain.

Flawless theory. No notes.

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Agree on points 2 to 5. But I totally disagree that Zionism is a problem.
The Bible literally teaches what people today call Zionism—that the land was given to the physical descendants of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and that God is not finished with them as a people.

You don’t need dispensationalism to see that. It’s right there in the text.

God calls His covenant with Abraham and his descendants everlasting and explicitly ties it to the land (Genesis 17:7–8). Then in Jeremiah 31:35–37, God says Israel will continue as a nation before Him as long as the fixed order of creation stands. That’s not symbolic language—it’s a direct statement about their ongoing national identity.

And then you get to Romans 11, which really settles it. Paul says Israel, in their current state, are “enemies for your sake” as it relates to the gospel, but at the same time “beloved for the fathers’ sake,” and that “the gifts and calling of God are without repentance” (Romans 11:28–29).

So who are these people who are both enemies and yet still beloved? The Jews. Paul is making a distinction.

Romans 11 shows two realities at once. There is a spiritual people of God—the church—made up of both Jews and Gentiles grafted together. But there is also a physical people, the ethnic descendants of Abraham, who still have a future in God’s plan. Paul goes on to say their blindness is partial and temporary until the fullness of the Gentiles comes in, and then Israel will be restored.

So from a Historic Premillennial perspective, Israel’s current unbelief doesn’t cancel their identity—it actually fits the pattern Scripture lays out. First unbelief, then restoration.

So no, Zionism isn’t an “enemy.” You can debate politics, you can reject dispensationalism, but if you take Scripture seriously, you can’t say God is done with the Jewish people or that their connection to that land is meaningless.

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🔥 In 195 BC, Rome faced something it had never seen before.

Women flooded the streets, pressured lawmakers, and demanded the repeal of laws restraining luxury.

On the Senate floor, Cato the Elder warned:
“If each of us had maintained his authority over his own wife, we should have less trouble with women as a whole…
The moment they begin to be your equals, they will be your superiors.”

He wasn’t speaking from hatred.
He was speaking from observation.

He understood that when authority in the home is surrendered, it doesn’t stay contained—it reshapes society.
Rome ignored him.
Centuries later, one of America’s founders saw the same pattern.

John Adams wrote in 1776:
“We know better than to repeal our masculine systems…
which would completely subject us to the despotism of the petticoat.”

By “despotism of the petticoat,” Adams was referring to women—and warning that if male authority were surrendered, women would come to rule over men.

Different civilizations. Same warning.

This isn’t about denying that women have value.

It’s about recognizing where that value is meant to be expressed—in the home, not in the realm of political rule.

Sadly, Adams’ warning was ignored by those who came after him.
And men in America, like the men of Rome, gave in to the protests and pressure of women.
In time, they granted women equal rights with men.

And now, much like Rome became, we have become a soft and weakened society.
And like Rome, we too will fall if we do not reverse course.

The Bible warns that a society ruled by women, rather than by men, is one under the judgment of God:

“As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them.
O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
— Isaiah 3:12

And now in the last 150 years we see the consequences of society making women equal with men.

Plummeting marriage rates and birth rates and skyrocketing divorce rates. A society where people live for themselves based completely on their feelings. A wicked society that encourages promiscuity and abortion.

Make no mistake America and Western culture will collapse and return to the natural order of Patriarchy one way or the other.

It will either collapse suddenly under the weight of its own foolishness or it will return to patriarchy gradually as men and women turn back to God and embrace his order for society.

The choice is ours.

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You’re not wrong for wanting a virgin wife.
But you are also not wrong for marrying a woman who is isn’t a virgin but has repented of her former sinful lifestyle.

This viral post from @TrevorSheatz is sparking debate—but the truth is, the Bible doesn’t force us into an either/or.

It gives us both grace and standards.

First—grace is real.

No one is beyond redemption. No past is too broken for God to cleanse.

📖 “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

A woman who has sinned sexually, repented, and turned to Christ
is forgiven. She is cleansed - spiritually.

But sexual sin can have lasting physical and emotional consequences,
and those realities should not be ignored when choosing a spouse.

But here’s what many are afraid to say today…

Virginity still matters.

God didn’t treat it as meaningless—He treated it as valuable.

📖 “And he shall take a wife in her virginity…” (Lev. 21:13)

And the New Testament reinforces that ideal:

📖 “…that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.” (2 Cor. 11:2)
Virginity is used as a picture of purity itself.

So no—a man is not wrong for valuing it.

He is not shallow. He is not unspiritual.

Here’s the real balance:
If a man lived in sexual sin and then repented, he should be humble enough to consider a woman who has done the same.

But if a man has remained sexually pure,
there is nothing sinful about him desiring the same in a wife.

That’s not hypocrisy. That’s consistency.

The problem with posts like this is subtle:
In trying to remove shame from women’s past sin, they often end up shaming men for having standards.

Men are told:
“Don’t prioritize virginity. Don’t value it that much.”

Scripture never says that.

God values sexual purity.

So it’s not wrong for men to value it too.
You don’t have to choose between grace and standards.

The Bible doesn’t.

Grace forgives the past.

Standards still guide the future.
It’s not either/or.
It’s both.

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It's actually shows how degenerate our modern society is that you have to ask this question at all. Before the last 150 years (and the advent if modern dating in the late 1800s) 95 percent of all women were saving sex for marriage and only courting (not dating) for marriage. Notice I left the 5 percent there to acknowledge there have always been whores throughout history 😀

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Rob—yes, “fornication” is a Latin-derived English word. That part is true. But that’s not really the issue.

The real question is—what word is it translating?

In the New Testament, the Greek word is porneia. That’s the word Paul actually uses. And porneia is a broad term for sexual immorality—it includes prostitution, adultery, and any sexual activity outside of marriage.

So, we’re not building doctrine off a Latin word—we’re translating a Greek word that already has a clear meaning.

And Paul doesn’t leave that meaning vague. In 1 Corinthians 6 he defines it by pointing back to Genesis—“the two shall be one flesh.” So, in other words, porneia is any one-flesh union outside of covenant marriage. That’s coming straight from the text.

So this isn’t really a translation issue—it’s a category issue.
Paul puts prostitution under porneia, and then explains that category using God’s design for sex itself.

And as far as the live discussion—I’m fine with that. But before we go there, we’ve got to stay grounded in the text.

Because once you follow Paul’s logic, it’s actually pretty simple.
Sex creates one flesh.
One flesh was designed for marriage.

Outside marriage, it’s porneia.
And that includes prostitution—not just temple prostitution.

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Rob—let me ask you this.

Was anyone ever given a specific civil punishment for drunkenness?
Scripture clearly condemns it over and over (Proverbs 20:1, 23:29–35), but where is the law that says, “a man caught drunk shall receive X punishment”?

What about gluttony? Laziness? Greed? Oppressing others? Taking advantage of people? Pride?

All of these are clearly condemned in the Old Testament—but you won’t find a consistent civil penalty attached to each one.

So, are those not really sins because there’s no stated punishment?

That’s the problem with the framework you’re using.

You’re trying to define sin based on whether there’s a listed court penalty. But Scripture doesn’t define sin that way.

God calls something sin because it violates His design and His law—not because He always assigns a specific civil punishment to it in Israel’s legal system.

And we already established what prostitution falls under.

Paul puts it in the category of fornication, and then explains why:
It creates a one-flesh union outside of marriage.

So, in other words, the question isn’t, “what was the court penalty?”

The question is, “does this violate God’s design for sex?”

And the answer to that—according to both Old and New Testament—is clearly yes.

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Rob—please don’t miss or gloss over this. You asked, “what is the sin?”

I already showed you 1 Corinthians 6:16 where Paul explicitly explains why prostitution is sin.
“He which is joined to an harlot is one body… for two shall be one flesh.”

So, the issue isn’t temple prostitution versus regular prostitution. Paul doesn’t even make that distinction.

He explains the sin itself.

When a man has sex with a prostitute, he becomes one flesh with her. That’s a Genesis concept. That’s how God designed sex—to create a one-flesh union within marriage.

In other words, prostitution is sin because it creates a one-flesh union outside of covenant.
So, the category Paul puts it in is not “idolatry”—it’s fornication.

He then says plainly:
“Flee fornication.”
And then immediately gives the only solution:
“To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife.”

So, Paul defines the sin and then defines the boundary.

Sex outside marriage = fornication
Marriage = the only lawful place for sex

In other words, prostitution—temple or not—is sinful because it violates God’s design for sex itself.

It takes what God created for covenant and uses it outside of covenant.

That’s why it’s sin.

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No—the biblical condemnation of harlotry is not limited simply to temple prostitutes. Scripture condemns all forms of prostitution, both in the Old Testament and the New.

In the Old Testament, Hebrew actually uses two different words. Zonah refers to a general prostitute, while qedeshah refers to a cult or temple prostitute tied to pagan worship.

And both are explicitly condemned. General prostitution is condemned in places like Leviticus 19:29 and Deuteronomy 23:17, and temple prostitution is also condemned in Deuteronomy 23:17–18 and 1 Kings 14:24.

So there’s no category of prostitution that’s allowed—God forbids both.

Now when you get to the New Testament, Greek doesn’t carry that same distinction. It primarily uses one word—porne—which is a broad term for a prostitute or sexually immoral woman.

So the idea that Paul is only talking about temple prostitution isn’t coming from the Greek text—it’s being read into it.

If Paul meant temple prostitution specifically, he had plenty of ways to make that clear. He could have tied it directly to idolatry. He could have referenced pagan worship practices. He could have narrowed the context. But he doesn’t do any of that.

Instead, he says, “What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? … for two shall be one flesh.”

So, his argument isn’t about temples at all—it’s about what sex is.

Sex creates a one-flesh union. That’s a Genesis principle. In other words, the issue isn’t where the sex happens—it’s that it’s happening outside of covenant.

And then look at how he frames everything around that. He says, “Flee fornication,” and then immediately after, “To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife.”

So, Paul gives one command and one solution. Flee sexual immorality and direct your sexual desire into marriage. In other words, he’s not saying avoid temple prostitution—he’s saying avoid all sex outside marriage.

So for the temple prostitute argument to work, you’d have to believe Paul used a broad word, gave a universal argument about one flesh, issued a blanket command to flee fornication, and then gave a single outlet in marriage—but somehow only meant a very narrow category.

That just doesn’t hold up.

So what Paul is actually doing is expanding the category, not narrowing it. He’s taking sexual sin out of just pagan temple contexts and rooting it in God’s design from the beginning.

In other words, once you follow his logic, it rules out all sex outside covenant. And that includes what we would call male promiscuity.

[Biblical Gender Roles @BibGen1]

Men, you’re not wrong for wanting a virgin wife.
But you are also not wrong for marrying a woman who is isn’t a virgin but has repented of her former sinful lifestyle.

This viral post from @TrevorSheatz is sparking debate—but the truth is, the Bible doesn’t force us into an either/or.

It gives us both grace and standards.

First—grace is real.

No one is beyond redemption. No past is too broken for God to cleanse.

📖 “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

A woman who has sinned sexually, repented, and turned to Christ
is forgiven. She is cleansed - spiritually.

But sexual sin can have lasting physical and emotional consequences,
and those realities should not be ignored when choosing a spouse.

But here’s what many are afraid to say today…

Virginity still matters.

God didn’t treat it as meaningless—He treated it as valuable.

📖 “And he shall take a wife in her virginity…” (Lev. 21:13)

And the New Testament reinforces that ideal:

📖 “…that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.” (2 Cor. 11:2)
Virginity is used as a picture of purity itself.

So no—a man is not wrong for valuing it.

He is not shallow. He is not unspiritual.

Here’s the real balance:
If a man lived in sexual sin and then repented, he should be humble enough to consider a woman who has done the same.

But if a man has remained sexually pure,
there is nothing sinful about him desiring the same in a wife.

That’s not hypocrisy. That’s consistency.

The problem with posts like this is subtle:
In trying to remove shame from women’s past sin, they often end up shaming men for having standards.

Men are told:
“Don’t prioritize virginity. Don’t value it that much.”

Scripture never says that.

God values sexual purity.

So it’s not wrong for men to value it too.
You don’t have to choose between grace and standards.

The Bible doesn’t.

Grace forgives the past.

Standards still guide the future.
It’s not either/or.
It’s both.

📖 Want a deeper biblical breakdown of sex, purity, and marriage?
Check out my book Why God Created Two Genders + my uncensored podcast at https://t.co/Xf2FyrdkoT

#ChristianMen #ChristianDating #Masculinity #purity
#relationshipadvice

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That response completely misses the point—and flips God’s design on its head.
A man is not “another child” because he comes home after working all day and wants peace. The Bible actually places the burden of provision squarely on his shoulders before God. “If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith…” (1 Timothy 5:8). That responsibility is heavy. It is constant. And it is God-given.
So when a man sits down at the end of the day, he is not acting like a child—he is a man who has already fulfilled his primary duty.
But modern thinking despises that distinction. It wants to turn marriage into a 50/50 “partnership,” where both are doing everything all the time. That’s not how Scripture describes it.
The Bible says plainly, “the head of the woman is the man” (1 Corinthians 11:3). And it shows wives honoring that role: “as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord” (1 Peter 3:5–6). That is not partnership language—that is headship.
And alongside that headship, God gives the wife her own domain: “that they may be…keepers at home” (Titus 2:5). Her calling is not to compete with her husband or demand equal burdens in every moment, but to manage the home and care for the children.
So when a woman resents her husband resting, what she is really revealing is that she has rejected the roles God established.
Yes, a husband should love his wife. Yes, he should help where appropriate. But that is very different from this modern expectation that he must come home and immediately take over her responsibilities as if they are interchangeable.
He is not her “partner.”
He is her head.
And a godly woman doesn’t despise that—she honors it.

[Biblical Gender Roles @BibGen1]

You’re not wrong for wanting a virgin wife.
But you are also not wrong for marrying a woman who is isn’t a virgin but has repented of her former sinful lifestyle.

This viral post from @TrevorSheatz is sparking debate—but the truth is, the Bible doesn’t force us into an either/or.

It gives us both grace and standards.

First—grace is real.

No one is beyond redemption. No past is too broken for God to cleanse.

📖 “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

A woman who has sinned sexually, repented, and turned to Christ
is forgiven. She is cleansed - spiritually.

But sexual sin can have lasting physical and emotional consequences,
and those realities should not be ignored when choosing a spouse.

But here’s what many are afraid to say today…

Virginity still matters.

God didn’t treat it as meaningless—He treated it as valuable.

📖 “And he shall take a wife in her virginity…” (Lev. 21:13)

And the New Testament reinforces that ideal:

📖 “…that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.” (2 Cor. 11:2)
Virginity is used as a picture of purity itself.

So no—a man is not wrong for valuing it.

He is not shallow. He is not unspiritual.

Here’s the real balance:
If a man lived in sexual sin and then repented, he should be humble enough to consider a woman who has done the same.

But if a man has remained sexually pure,
there is nothing sinful about him desiring the same in a wife.

That’s not hypocrisy. That’s consistency.

The problem with posts like this is subtle:
In trying to remove shame from women’s past sin, they often end up shaming men for having standards.

Men are told:
“Don’t prioritize virginity. Don’t value it that much.”

Scripture never says that.

God values sexual purity.

So it’s not wrong for men to value it too.
You don’t have to choose between grace and standards.

The Bible doesn’t.

Grace forgives the past.

Standards still guide the future.
It’s not either/or.
It’s both.

📖 Want a deeper biblical breakdown of sex, purity, and marriage?
Check out my book Why God Created Two Genders + my uncensored podcast at https://t.co/Xf2FyrcMzl

#ChristianMen #ChristianDating #Masculinity #purity
#relationshipadvice