A man must be aware of his superiority, his goals, his tasks, his responsibility, his rationality, and his authority, just as he must be aware of her inferiority, her dependence, her necessities and her tasks.
A man never kneels before a woman. Not to apologize, to propose marriage, or even for fun.
He is aware of his superior position, always behaves rationally and decisively, and protects his pride and honor.
Fathers should not permit their daughters to pursue professions that would overtax them physically or mentally, that require decision-making ability, leadership qualities, or the shouldering of great responsibility, that involve dangers, that run counter to femininity, that necessitate incurring debt, or that would delay marriage.
For a girl, marriage takes precedence over any other form of development.
@Jen80092294 That is, of course, the ideal scenario, if the young woman has already been raised according to the same values. Even so, the husband provides the finishing touches, and she submits herself to his leadership.
A girl should help her mother with household chores from an early age so she can learn from her what it takes to run a household: cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, tidying up, and serving. By the age of 12, she should already be fully capable of stepping in for her mother and taking care of all the household chores if her mother is away or sick.
Women are created for men, for marriage, and for motherhood. To push them instead toward pursuing higher education and a professional career is an abuse, a waste of their femininity and runs counter to their very nature and desires.
Anyone who wants to protect his marriage must forbid his wife from having "girls' nights out" or going on "girls' trips." These things only lead to misbehavior and negative influences that jeopardize her focus on her husband and the marriage itself.
I cheated on my husband during a girls’ trip. When I returned home, I thought I could bury what happened and move on with my life. I was wrong.
It happened on the third night of our vacation. My friends and I had gone out for drinks, and I ended up getting too close to a man I had just met. One bad decision led to another, and I slept with him.
The next morning, I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror.
I had a husband who trusted me, two beautiful children, and a home I had always been grateful for. Yet, I had done something that could destroy everything.
When I returned home, my husband hugged me at the door.
Husband: How was the trip? Did you girls have fun?
Me: Yes, it was nice. I missed you, though.
He smiled and kissed my forehead.
Husband: I missed you too. The children have been asking when you’re coming back.
I almost broke down right there.
For the next two months, I tried to act normal. I cooked, laughed with him, helped the children with their homework, and went to bed beside a man who had no idea what I had done.
The guilt became unbearable. Every time he did something thoughtful for me, I felt worse.
One evening, he came home with my favourite dessert because I had mentioned wanting it earlier that week.
Husband: I know you’ve had a stressful week. I thought this might cheer you up.
I took the box from him and started crying.
Husband: What happened? Is everything okay?
@buddylucus This is also something I always emphasize: we must raise girls and boys separately, foster their natural interests, and encourage them in who they are and who they are becoming—preparing them for their respective roles.
Patriarchy existed to STOP OTHER MEN.
You really think men invented patriarchy to hold YOU down? You are too weak, too fragile, too irrelevant for men to waste invention on you.
Men invented patriarchy to protect their lands, food, money, resources, women and children FROM MEN.
500 years ago women didn't know what patriarchy was because it was SURVIVAL.
No police. No 911. No guns. No cell phones. If a rival tribe wanted you, they killed your men, raped you, took your land, took your food, and married you off to their sons or kept you as maids, servants, and sex slaves. That was history.
Patriarchy said: TOUCH HER AND YOU DIE. She belongs to this man, this family, this tribe. That was not oppression. That was a DEATH THREAT to other men to keep you safe.
Pregnancy = 9 months useless. Breastfeeding mother can't run, can't fight, baby cries and brings wolves.
Who hunted? MEN.
Who fought bears? MEN.
Who fought other men? MEN.
Who built houses in snow? MEN.
Who died in wars? 90% MEN.
If men left women alone to be "independent" in 1500, you would have gone EXTINCT in one winter. No food. No fire. No protection.
You are alive today because of patriarchy.
Modern luxury - AC, Uber Eats, iPhone, birth control, police made yall RETARDED and ungrateful. You think world was always safe.
You think animals don't hunt humans for food?
Who stopped all these? Patriarchy. Men who built walls, laws, armies, civilization so you can sit on TikTok with fake eyelashes and say "patriachy oppress me."
You are not oppressed. You are PROTECTED and too dumb to know it.
Without patriarchy, you wouldn't be CEOs. You'd be extinct or a sex slave to the strongest man in your own village that’s been conquered by the enemy.
Patriarchy is not why you are suffering. Patriarchy is why you are ALIVE to complain.