Once the attachment fades, they stop looking like your soulmate. Suddenly, they're just an avoidant with a massive ego, bad communication skills, no accountability, and always playing the victim.
If you pay attention to the patterns of your life, you’ll realise that everything always works out. Everything always takes you to a greater destination. You always grow, and the things you think you can't survive, you somehow divinely make it through. That's life. Remember that.