You're a man. Act broke. Delete food delivery apps. Drive a modest car. Live in a cheap apartment. Keep a simple wardrobe. Ignore their judgment. Stack cash. Invest, invest, invest. Set yourself up for life.
Almost every woman you will ever meet of all social backgrounds and intelligence levels has an inclination towards the spiritual, either because she is very clever and has a crazy dream world, or because she is very dumb and needs to explain events through unfalsifiable arguments. She will think of sex as magical, spiritual, as opening a portal, and a whole bunch of different things.
It is really this simple: sexuality is sacred, and a woman who shares hers with lots of men is profaning the most sacred aspect of herself by inviting different men into her soul.
A woman who has never been touched by any man but her husband is giving him something incredibly special, by honouring him before she even knew him by saving herself for him so she never knows anyone but him. For her, sex isn't about herself or her pleasure, but is the ultimate act of devotion in which she saves herself for the one man she deems truly worthy of her soul. This has been the dominant female psychology across all advanced societies for thousands of years now, as evidenced by the religions we have which have been here for just as long, and to this very day continue to advocate as such.
A wife who belongs singularly and solely to the one she chose to give herself to is incredibly beautiful, and what she is offering her husband is the byproduct of discipline and intention expressed as devotion through restraint, preservation and preparation. It shows she values purity, doesn't take moral shortcuts like profiteering from her sexuality to get ahead, and inherently has outstanding spiritual hygiene. She ensures her husband only gets the best of her with no ghost/shadow memories, attachments, trauma or other forms of fragmentation and damage that are part and parcel of failed relationships and past sexual interludes with other men.
She is free of "the stench" of the essence of any other man on her. When you are with her, you are not in the room with her and 13 other men. It's just you, because it has only ever been you, and can only ever be you. You are her one and only.
I am not a woman, but I can offer you a womanās perspective from my internal modelling of the smartest/wisest women Iāve known in this life, so consider this: men think they only deserve a certain quality of woman once they reach X level of success, where X would essentially materially put you in the top 5% of men within your society. Average women look for successful men because they are primarily searching for providers. This makes sense.
But a quality woman does not look for success or āthe full packageā but a man who possesses a rare spirit, intellect and character that makes him both not only more human, but quite paradoxically, also more divine to her. She trusts the essence of who he is is fundamentally good and valuable. It is this which she is obsessed with, and fundamentally drawn to.
She will build with him because she wants to invest in him, and she wants to build with him because in building with him she binds him to her in a way no other woman could compete with. Only one woman can be a part of his becoming, and she will ensure she is it. She knows she could never bind a rich man in the same way, because she was not a part of his becoming. He is too corrupted by his optionality to ever appreciate her in that way, and so he cannot internalise her in the same way. Even if he is genuine, he would not be spoiling her with the fruits of their shared labour, but with the accumulated capital of a life led pre-her. He has probably lavished women before. There is a disconnect - no shared struggle in becoming.
You donāt have to believe me, but there are women who deliberately (and categorically) call them anti-gold diggers if you will - who avoid rich men because they donāt trust them, and are vigilant as to how wealth corrupts them. They know he will try to ābuy her and bribe herā and only a lowly woman could ever be for sale - so the attempt fundamentally undermines the purity of the love achievable.
The internet will tell you itās all about money and only money matters and if you donāt have money, youāre worthless as a man. This is only really a half truth in the sense that if youāre an average person, it is mostly your lived experience. It is for all intent and purpose, true for you. "Get your money up broke boy" bla bla etc. It isnāt if youāre an outlier. Third worlder (dog eat dog survive at all costs we cannot afford morality so must use and scam people for money mindset) and shallow 100 IQ ladder climbing normie mindset do not apply to outliers. They operate differently. She will evaluate the texture of your fucking soul.
Think as you like but behave like others.
If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them.
They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior.
It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch.
Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.
Weak men dream of fairness; strong men accept asymmetry. No power structure is balanced, no deal is equal, no friendship free of hierarchy. To demand equality is to confess weakness. To engineer imbalance is to confess mastery. Tilt the scale before someone tilts it for you.
Iāve noticed a pattern recently, especially with women between the ages of 25 and 29; particularly 26, 27, 28.
You meet them, you get to know each other, the vibe is there. You like them. You think, okay, let's try something here.
Next thing, they start saying things like, āLetās be involved,ā āLetās date,ā but itās a sexless relationship. A relationship with no sex.
So the first question is: are you a virgin?āØAnd the answer is usually no.
So my question is this: why is it that at 26, 27, 28, after being sexually active, you now decide that this is the point in your life where you want celibacy? Not because youāre a virgin. Not because the man wants it too. But because youāve decided so. Don't get me wrong, yes, you have the right to make these choices, but majority of them are taken not out of honesty!!!
Hereās my take:āØItās either that when these women were sexually active before, they were freely sexual, and now theyāre trying to get a man to do a sexless relationship. Because when youāre sexually involved with a woman, you often see her true colors faster. Sex exposes things.
Or, and this is the uncomfortable part, some of these women have accumulated health-related issues over time: fibroids, PCOS, complications from abortions, or other sexual health problems as a resulted unhealthy sexual activity in the past! And they donāt want you to discover these things. Because when youāre sexually involved with someone, you feel things. You notice things. You test compatibility.
So the safest strategy becomes: find a man, āmanipulateā him into a sexless relationship, delay intimacy until marriage, then everything comes out full-blown. Thatās when you discover issues. Thatās when you realize youāre not even sexually compatible. I blame the mumu men who falls for this stupid tactics everytime!
In many cases, men leave once they discover these issues. And that might be why some of these women have stayed single. So now, celibacy becomes a shield.
This is my problem:āØHow can you be sexually active for years, not a virgin, and then suddenly decide to be celibate only when a serious man comes into the picture?
Thatās not discipline.āØThatās not purity.āØThatās manipulation.
@Wizarab10@neo_officialll@Taiwo_junzi@OtitoNosike
āMarry, and you will regret it; donāt marry, you will also regret it; marry or donāt marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the worldās foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the worldās foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both.
Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it⦠Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or donāt hang yourself, youāll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both.
This⦠is the essence of all philosophy.ā
āSĆøren Kierkegaard
This young man had shared his story in my dm and I have advise him accordingly, not just to him but to every young man out there in a possible same situation.
He was in a relationship for almost four years with this young girl and they almost got married this year.
The wedding was postponed last month, partly because of money, but that delay opened his eyes.
He realized he had been carrying the relationship alone. He paid all the bills, funded her movements, handled outings, gifts, and plans, yet got little or nothing in return. No care. No effort. No warmth.
She never spent her own money to visit him.
Each visit started with āsend transport.ā When he suggested she try once, she said he should leave it if he did not want to send. No compromise. No thought.
On her last birthday, he spent over N800,000. Got her new phone, clothes, hair, cake, outing, surprises.
Still no real appreciation. Even affection felt forced. No random hugs. No kisses. Intimacy only happened when he pushed for it, and even then, with grudges.
Please save & defend this man's reputation.
My name is Okonkwo Ozioma.
I am married, & a good father.
I was falsely accused by my wife, Chisom Okonkwo, of raping my 2 lovely daughters.
I am innocent.
The police has done their investigation, & charged her to court.
Repost!
Did you all see the viral news of a man in Enugu who was accused of raping his two daughters, and was arrested?
Turned out that his wife lied against him.
Read the charge by the police.
"My mother is an angel".
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A manās soul decays when he abandons responsibility. He hides behind pleasure, blames circumstance, and rots in comfort. Purpose resurrects him. Pain cleanses him. Every trial you endure is an invitation to evolve, or an excuse to decay. The choice is yours.
As long as you believe in God.
You should never feed your innocent kids with stolen money.
Feed your kids with your legitimate earnings.
For those of you single men that are thieves, it'll be in your best interest to stop stealing, before you marry and start having children.
If you like, be comparing yourselves with children of politicians who are stealing.
You better take a good look at their children.
You'll see "commas".
A lot of them are gays, prostitutes, drug addicts and generally not okay.
I wonder what even motivates you to be like them.
What shall it profit a man, to acquire stolen wealth, but his children are useless to him, & the society?
Most of them, their children can never do better than their fathers.
And even when their father dies, they'll sell of his properties and share. They'll not be able to sustain his businesses, until everything vanishes.
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