Human birth is one of the most dangerous and difficult deliveries in the entire animal kingdom. Which animal are you comparing it to.
Babies have big heads, and our mothers walk upright on two legs. That combination is exactly why the human woman is the only species that needs another person to help her give birth.
A chimpanzee can walk into the bush, deliver, and carry her baby out on her own. How many woman is capable of doing that.
And you get mind mention C-sections like they’re ordinary. A C-section is major surgery they cut a woman’s abdomen open. Before that surgery existed, the same labour you’re calling “nothing special” has buried so many mother and child together.
A man who came into this world through a woman’s pain is now sitting down to compare that pain to chimpanzees and kangaroos.
Until you stay in a room where your own wife is giving birth to your child that’s the day una go really respect childbirth.
Have you people now seen why we say marry first? Because no right-thinking married man with kids will come out on social media to vomit this kind of rubbish.
Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.
People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.
There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.
Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.
We are in the trenches!!
I WATCHED MY COWORKER CRY IN HIS CAR FOR 20 MINUTES, THEN WALKED BACK IN SMILING LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. PEOPLE REALLY BE FIGHTING SILENT BATTLES EVERY DAY
Activist: "The water usage for beef is obscene. Thousands of litres per kilogram."
Farmer: "That's rainfall."
Activist: "What?"
Farmer: "The figure includes all the rain that falls on the pasture. The cows drink from the stream. The rain falls whether there's a cow here or not."
Activist: "It's still water consumption."
Farmer: "Should I stop the rain falling on my field?"
Activist: "Grow crops instead. More efficient."
Farmer: "This is a 35-degree slope in the Welsh hills. Show me the crop."
Activist: "Technology..."
Farmer: "To make tractors climb mountains?"
Activist: "There must be a solution."
Farmer: "There is. It's called a cow."
Activist: [checks phone]
Funny how most restaurants are full of male chefs, but at home it's magically a woman's duty. Basically, when it's an unpaid job, it's 'for women.' When it's profitable, suddenly it's a 'man's passion.'
Tsonga says the competition was much stronger 10+ years ago.
Tsonga: "I would like to see Alcaraz and Sinner face a younger Novak Djokovic, Federer, Nadal, Murray, Del Potro all in a row. Right now, it's just the two of them their own age."
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I read a quote that said, “You can be the prettiest shade of green, but you’ll never be enough for someone whose favorite color is blue,” and it really stuck with me.
Sa 118 kamera podigao sam broj na 177.
U kategoriju graničnih prelaza dodao sam filtriranje po državi.
Tamo gde tehnologija dozvoljava, sada možete da napravite sliku sa kamere i preuzmete je na svoj računar. na jedan klik.
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Sad malo o mom doživljaju predstave Semper idem, Narodnog pozorišta u Somboru.
Da pojasnim da je Gorčin Stojanović režirao ovu predstavu na osnovu istoimene autobiografske knjige koju je napisao Đorđe Lebović i da predstava traje oko 6 sati, 4 čina sa 3 pauze....
Pročitala sam knjigu letos na odmoru, pa sam znala priču i naravno jedva čekala predstavu. Moram da kažem da je pravi izazov doći do karata. Onog dana kad na IG objave da puštaju karte u prodaji za naredni mesec, već posle par sati karata nema...
Sad oni što sam htela o predstavi.
Rekla bih da u predstavi učestvuje ceo ansambl pozorišta (ili skoro ceo, nisam sigurna). Tokom prvog čina smo se upoznavali... Kad je počeo drugi čin osetila sam nešto što nikad nisam u pozorištu. Odjednom smo svi iz sale lebdeli iznad Sombora, Zagreba, Subotice, Aušvica...na krilima neverovatnog Marka Markovića glumčine u ulozi Đorđa Lebovića. Naravno, svi ostali glumci su više nego realno iznosili svoje likove: majka i očuh Andrej Knjigašuma, otac i maćeha, tetka Paulina, deda Adolf, njegovi drugari iz škole, njegove ljubavi i svi oni koji su na neki način bili deo života Đorđa Lebovića. Ni za jotu nisu zaostajali za Markom koji je te noći nosio i svoje kolege i sve nas iz publike. Delo jeste izuzetno zahtevno ali je fenomenalni Gorčin to zaista maestralno upakovano.
Nisam baš neko ko je mnogo lak na suze, par puta sam zaplakala jer sam osetila direktno emociju od glumaca. Sam kraj predstave sam dočekala potpuno uplakana. 10 minuta stojećeg aplauza nisam mogle da zaustavim suze. Na kraju Markove reči:
"Nema srednjeg puta, ili je zločin ili nije! Semper idem, zlo je uvek isto!"
I visoko podignut indeks iznad glave da obasja sve nas.
Vrtelo mi se u glavi do duboko u noć....
Sutradan smo ostali na predstavi "Gospoda Glembajevi", gde je fenomenalni Marko igrao Leona Glembajeva.
U dve izuzetno zahtevne uloge u dve večeri lakoća kojom se on prebacuje iz uloge u ulogu je zaista fascinantna...
Isto se odnosi i na sve njegove kolege iz ansambla.
Za mene je ovo pozorište sa svojim ansamblom potpuno otkrovenje i sigurna sam da me čeka još puno vikenda u tem Somboru da vidim još "Besnilo" Pekićevo, "Lutke od voska" Anje Alač, "Radovan III" Vita Taufera.... " Tartifa" već gledamo u SNP 26.01.
Ako neko ima dilemu, svakako treba da ode i pogleda ove predstave... Oni su zaista svetlo u ovom mraku koje nas okružuje.
Birth control doesn't just suppress hormones. It prevents you from learning how your body works.
Women who never took birth control can often feel when they ovulate. They know their cervical fluid changes. They can recognize fertile windows. They intimately understand their cycle.
Women coming off birth control have no baseline. They don't know if what they're experiencing is normal or dysfunction.
The pill steals decades of body literacy from women. Then leaves them trying to conceive with no understanding of their own fertility signals.
Прича из београдског таксија. Носим ручак супрузи, дижем руку и бело возило се зауставља у улици Џорџа Вашингтона. Седам позади и кажем да идем на Топчидерску звезду. Човек за воланом је мојих година. Ћути. Док чекамо зелено светло код главне поште, окрену се и упита: Да ли сте некад неочекивано срели прву љубав из школске клупе?
Збуњен и затечен, покушавам да нешто смислено кажем.
Видевши моје петљање настави: Знате, ушла је у ауто, бацио сам поглед у ретровизор и задрхтао. Само је рекла улицу на Врачару и после ћутала, гледала кроз прозор. На мене није обраћала пажњу. Било ме срамота да јој кажем ко сам. И да се сећам њеног споменара и странице са питањем „Шта ћу бити код порастем“.
Она је ту записала : „Књижевница“, а ја „Правићу мостове“. Када сам се зауставио рекао сам 665 динара. Пружила ми је 700 динара и рекла хвала. Затворила врата и ушла у скупу зграду што је направио онај фудбалер. Мислим да сам испао магарац, ја најбољи математичар у мом разреду.
Излазећи на мојој адреси, господину сам признао да не знам како бих поступио на његовом месту али сам препоручио да послуша стару песму Харија Чепина . Зове се „Такси“.
Да ли је нашао времена да је преслуша, не знам. Али вреди.
Наратор песме је таксиста који једне кишне вечери покупи жену испод кишобрана. Испоставља се да је путница његова стара изгубљена љубав.
Док се поново уједињују, подсећају се на то како су се заљубили пре много година. Свако од њих је имао снове које је желео да оствари.
„Она је требало да буде глумица“, а он „је требало да научи да лети“.
Када се заустави у њеном дворишту, јасно је да се обоје морају вратити својим неиспуњеним животима.
Док се возач враћа ка својој станици, схвата да су на неки начин обоје пронашли оно што су тражили.
Она је била глумица јер се „понашала срећно у свом лепом дому“. А он је „летео у свом таксију, примао бакшиш и дрогирао се“.
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Women entering the workforce has completely destroyed quality of life for Americans
1. Two incomes became the new one income.
Once everyone had to work, employers and banks raised prices. Houses doubled. Families didn’t get ahead. They just ran harder to stay in place.
2. Kids got raised by institutions instead of parents.
Daycare replaces bonding. Schools replace values. Screens replace discipline. Then everyone wonders why kids are anxious and disconnected.
3. Communities disappeared.
If both parents work all day, nobody is home. No neighborhood stability. No local support. Just isolated families worn out from the grind.
4. Stress shot through the roof.
Two commutes, two schedules, no downtime, constant rushing. Marriages crack under nonstop exhaustion.
5. Divorce became the easy option.
Two incomes make it simple to leave instead of fix problems. The family foundation got weaker.
6. Birthrates collapsed.
If both parents are working 50 hours a week, having more than one or two kids is almost impossible. Entire generations are shrinking.
7. Government filled the void.
When no one is home, institutions step in. Schools. Daycare. After school programs. Healthcare systems. Government support. Weak homes create more state dependence.
8. Men lost purpose.
A man’s historical role to build, protect, and provide got diluted. Many men checked out. Society suffers when men have nothing to fight for.
9. Women were sold a false dream.
They were told a career and a boss would make them happier than raising their children or building a family. Now we have record levels of burnout, depression, and regret.
10. Families turned into roommates.
Everyone works. Everyone is tired. No one has energy for each other. The home stopped being a team and became a collection of exhausted individuals.