A narcissist doesn't see a relationship the way you do. You seek love, trust, and connection.
They often seek influence, validation, and control. That's why they test your reactions through silence, distance, provocation, or conflict. The goal isn't to resolve problems; it's to measure how much power they still have over your emotions.
When you stop chasing, stop explaining, and stop reacting emotionally, their strategy begins to fail.
What hurts them most isn't losing the relationship it's losing the control they once had over you.
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