I dont date men without fathers, and I don’t date men with kids. I don’t date men in addiction. I don’t date men that hate women. I don’t date ugly men. And I don’t date men that can’t lead better than me. Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fcked up.
Kenzie is finally making me understand what people mean when they say date like a white woman. She genuinely treats men as replaceable and thinks a man not wanting to be w her is his personal failing. I rate it like mad
Daily reminder that racists hate you because you're Black, not because of "muh behavior." They'll hate you no matter what. Internalize this, and never tapdance.
Someone once said: "no contact for you is just a normal day for them" and I never looked back since. Stop obsessing over people who sleep just fine without you
Listen to me when I say it's those damaged souls, the black sheep, the ones that grew up too fast when reality hit them hard at a young age, The ones that knew pain and broken hearts from the first moment they could recall their thoughts, the ones that can struggle through anything life throws at them because it's all they've ever known. The people that don't fit in anywhere, but know everybody, Those are the dopest, purest people you will ever encounter.
I actually don't want to climb any corporate ladders. I don't care about job titles. I don't need accolades.
I just want to have income to fund my lifestyle, not be depressed, help other people, and be around good humans.
Whenever i get weird vibes from ANYONE, i just stop talking to them & stop coming around. Sometimes i give an explanation sometimes i don't because they be knowing exactly what they did wrong ! And I’m not forcing accountability from anyone. So it is what it is & it is what it’s gone be
y’all way too comfortable with disrespecting/mistreating people and just expecting them to “get over it” without even holding yourself accountable . y’all mess up genuine people around you simply because your ego is too big to give a decent apology FOLLOWED BY corrective action AND ways to fix it …
Having a naturally intimidating aura is so exhausting. People will go to the wildest extremes to humble me or compete with me. Meanwhile, I'm literally just trying to exist.
Somebody said don't be afraid to spend money on concert tickets and travel. Be afraid of growing old and realizing the only place you ever went was work.
And I couldn't agree more.
I didn’t unfollow you because you posted “RIP Charlie”, I unfollowed you because it’s the first time you’ve used your platform to speak up, and that tells me everything I need to know.
If you’re going to be strict with men, stop telling them the consequences.
See, this is where most ppl get it twisted. We think boundaries are about speeches, warnings, ultimatums. The more you explain, you invite negotiation. And in that moment, you’ve already lost ground.