Breakup Chat

Personalised guidance for breakups, getting your ex back & relationship crises.

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Instead of No Contact try this 👇

#breakup #divorce #relationships #getmyexback #exback

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Literally posting to get ZZERO LIKES

BRUTAL 😂😭

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and yes, sometimes they do come back.

but you need to stop chasing the outcome.

because the more you chase someone who has walked away, the less room there is for them to make that decision themselves.

give it space.

you don’t know how your story ends yet.

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you might never hear from your ex again.

read that again.

the person you shared your bed with, your secrets, your plans and your future with…

might never send you another message.

and i know that thought is absolutely terrifying.

but here’s something you need to understand.

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a breakup doesn’t erase years of memories, emotional attachment or everything two people shared.

sometimes people need to lose the daily contact, the familiarity and the constant presence of someone before they can properly reflect on what that person meant to them.

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Love has a cost

To love means to be there when things aren’t easy

To do not what you want but what we want

To compromise

To learn

To listen

To strive to be better for us

No more me me me

But

Us

Us

Us

Love costs you you

To become

WE

Selfless Love ❤️‍🩹

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It’s impossible to grow on for new accounts

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If you want your ex back, stop doing this 👇

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Would you take your ex back if they changed their mind?

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Why did you break up?

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One of the best breakup advice I ever got 👇

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@fyristic Idk you tell us you got over 80 likes here

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@NickpxJ It seems much harder tbh

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@BmarieD4 How do impressions work?

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Don’t let someone who decided to leave

Live rent free in your life

Whatever happened happened

You can’t go back

Living the same memories repeatedly

Keeps you stuck in the past

So how can you possibly move on?

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you’ll learn that loving someone doesn’t mean you can make them stay.

and that sometimes, the people who hurt us the most end up teaching us the most about ourselves.

don’t waste that pain.

let it change you, but don’t let it make you bitter.

let it make you better.

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the pain you feel after losing someone who chose to leave your life…

as difficult as it is, this is also where some of your greatest lessons will come from.

you’ll learn things about love, attachment, yourself and what it means to let go of someone you never wanted to lose.

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this gives them space to reflect on the relationship without feeling pressured to defend their decision.

and sometimes, that’s when they start missing what they had.

because you can’t miss someone’s presence when they’re always there.

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no contact and how it affects the dumper…

when you constantly reach out, they never really get to experience your absence.

but when you stop, the dynamic changes.

there’s no more attention, reassurance or constant reminders that you’re still available.

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no contact is probably one of the most misunderstood things after a breakup…

Watch to see why 👇