Raphael Warnock: The United States of America has become the mass incarceration capital of the world.
Bill Maher: There's a lot of ways to go to jail in America.
Warnock: Unless you're in the Oval Office.
Pete Hegseth is removing or blocking the promotions of all military officers who he has determined would not participate in an illegal pro-Trump self-coup (auto-coup) in 2028.
You can believe me now or believe me in 2028.
Either way, stop seeing what Hegseth is doing as random.
The older I get, the more I believe there are only two kinds of wives.
The one who gives you energy when you come home...
And the one who makes you sit in your car for 15 extra minutes before opening the gate.
Your choice of spouse determines the quality of your everyday life more than almost any other decision you'll ever make.
Alex Hormozi reveals there are no solutions in life, only trade-offs, including in marriage.
"There are no solutions, only trade-offs. You will sacrifice novelty for loyalty when you get married. At some point it will be worth more to you to have loyalty than novelty. There are many trades like this we have to make."
"The ultimate trade is the one we never make, where we end up with neither thing we want because we sit on the sideline with a big stack of options, never using them. Some doors do close. At a certain point you lose options by not committing. Some options have an expiration date."
"We have to decide and realize we will not get everything in life. You cannot have it all. We want everything and are unwilling to sacrifice anything. And as a result we get nothing."
Kids are spending up to 15 hours a day on digital platforms. Many are losing sleep and withdrawing from family, friends and community life.
According to experts, this has the same impact on the brain as drug addiction.
Our kids’ well-being must come before Big Tech's profits.
12/28/2010: Antoine Winfield strips Michael Vick and returns the ball 45 yards for a TD. Vikings upset the Eagles in Philly on a rare Tuesday night game 24-14.
Secret weapon in life: knowing when you're tired vs when you're done. Tired needs rest. Done needs change. The prescription for each is opposite. Misdiagnosing wastes years.
Robert Downey Jr. says reaching the top of your profession won't make you happy
"You're going to think this is great Monday and on Thursday, when you don't understand why you're still you, then let's talk, because that's when it gets interesting"
"There is no substitute for a clear conscience"
"Being able to put head to pillow at night with no wreckage, no damage, no apologies required"
Frustrated with the impact of digital devices, a Minneapolis AP Literature teacher banned phones and laptops from her classroom, and the results were striking.
Maureen Mulvaney, who teaches at Washburn High School, decided to go fully “old-school.” Students completed all their work using pencil and paper, and physical books replaced digital PDFs. Though some students were initially nervous about falling behind, the experiment aimed to restore deep focus, reading stamina, and clear thinking that many educators believe screens have weakened.
The outcomes exceeded expectations. In September, only 46% of her students felt confident in their reading abilities. By February, just five months later, that number jumped to 95%. Students who once struggled to write even half a page by hand were soon producing six- to seven-page essays. Nearly 80% reported that organizing ideas and thinking clearly was easier on paper than on a screen. Many also said the change helped them reduce overall screen time at home and improved their real-world conversations.
A calm nervous system is the real flex. Not the car, not the watch, not the body count. The ability to walk into chaos and stay grounded. To receive bad news without spiraling. To sit in silence without reaching for your phone. To let people be dramatic around you without catching it. That kind of regulation is rare and it took real work to build. Most people are walking around completely dysregulated and calling it personality. Stillness under pressure is the most quietly powerful thing a person can possess.
⚡️Marriage is one of the highest-leverage decisions in life because it controls the household operating system.
The person you marry affects your ambition, spending, risk tolerance, emotional stability, sleep, health, focus, social circle, children, legal exposure, time horizon, and daily energy.
That is the machinery underneath wealth, happiness, and destiny.
A good spouse compounds you.
They make life more stable, your judgment cleaner, your home calmer, your ambition safer to pursue, your risks more intelligent, your recovery faster, your children stronger, and your wealth harder to destroy.
They do not merely “support” you. They reduce entropy.
That is the word.
Entropy.
The wrong spouse increases entropy everywhere.
More drama. More spending. More insecurity. More emotional tax. More distraction. More status games. More resentment. More legal risk. More instability. More bad decisions made from stress. More years lost trying to manage a household that never becomes a base of power.
People underestimate that because they think marriage wealth destruction means divorce.
Divorce is only the visible explosion.
The deeper destruction happens before that: years of muted ambition, bad sleep, financial leakage, emotional chaos, compromised decisions, loss of confidence, loss of sexual polarity, loss of momentum, and a home that drains the person who is supposed to be building.
The right marriage is a private civilization.
The wrong marriage is a slow civil war.
Treating marriage like a cold spreadsheet is stupid and spiritually dead. But pretending marriage has no economic or strategic dimension is even dumber.
Love matters.
Attraction matters.
Loyalty matters.
Character matters.
But character and alignment are what make love durable under pressure.
A person can be beautiful, exciting, and emotionally intoxicating while still being a terrible partner for the life you are trying to build.
The real question is not “does this person make me feel something?”
The real question is: does this person multiply the life force, or consume it?
A great partner makes your whole field stronger. Money grows because the household has trust, discipline, shared direction, lower chaos, and a longer time horizon. Happiness grows because your nervous system has a real home. Children grow better because the foundation is coherent.
Marriage is leverage.
With the right person, leverage builds the kingdom.
With the wrong person, leverage magnifies the flaw until it owns the whole house.
Someone with ADHD can listen to you harder than anyone in the room and still walk away remembering the least. Both happen at once, and the same wiring drives them.
Start with the listening. The brain has two systems that are meant to take turns. One locks onto the outside world. The other runs your private inner voice, the daydreams and stray tangents. In most people they work like a seesaw, so when you focus on someone talking, the inner chatter drops away. In an ADHD brain that switch doesn't fully flip. The daydreaming system keeps firing while you're trying to pay attention, leaving a low buzz of background noise while you talk. Brain scans pick it up as brief lapses in focus they can't control, even when the person is fully tuned in.
Then a second problem stacks on top. Holding new information in your head for a few seconds, long enough to file it away, is called working memory, and it's one of the most reliably broken functions in ADHD. Studies put it at around 85% of children with ADHD. The breakdown happens at the saving step, not the caring step. The words land, the interest is real, and the sentence dissolves before it ever gets stored.
The enthusiasm has a cause too. An ADHD brain runs low on dopamine, the chemical that flags things as worth your attention, and has fewer of the docking points that catch it. Ordinary input feels flat, which is why boredom is close to physically painful for these brains and why they reach for anything new. A fresh conversation is new, so it spikes dopamine and produces visible excitement. The same low setting that makes them light up is the one that lets the details slide.
That dopamine hunger is also why the day ends the way the post describes. Most of an ordinary day is boring, low-payoff tasks an ADHD brain finds draining, so by night it's running on fumes and chasing the buzz it never got. Two things pile on. The sleep hormone melatonin shows up about 90 minutes later in adults with ADHD than in people without it, so when the house goes quiet they aren't sleepy, they're wired. And their internal clock is measurably off. A review covering more than 1,600 people with ADHD found their sense of time passing is less accurate and less precise than other people's. At night, that means the hours stop registering. A little more time for yourself quietly turns into 2am.
Psychologists named the result revenge bedtime procrastination, staying up on purpose to claw back hours the day swallowed. The stronger someone's ADHD traits, the more they tend to do it. The late night is the one stretch where a brain that gets bored fast, loses track of time, and runs on a late clock finally gets to run on its own terms. The original post called it "their own time." That is the most accurate description there is.
Born this day in 1925 in a Texas sharecropper's shack, one of twelve kids. His dad walked out, his mom died young, and Audie Murphy quit school in fifth grade to pick cotton and hunt rabbits to feed his brothers and sisters. He got deadly accurate with a rifle for one reason: the family couldn't afford a wasted bullet.
After Pearl Harbor he tried to enlist and got laughed off. The Marines rejected him. The Navy rejected him. The paratroopers rejected him. He was 5'5" and barely 110 pounds, and they all said he was too small to fight. His sister had to fudge his paperwork just to get the Army to take a 17 year old.
Then he went to war and became something out of a legend.
January 26, 1945, near Holtzwihr, France. His company was down to a handful of men facing six tanks and 250 German infantry. Murphy sent his men back, then climbed onto a burning American tank destroyer that could have exploded under him at any second, grabbed the .50 caliber machine gun, and held off the entire assault alone for nearly an hour. He was wounded in the leg and kept firing. When a buddy asked over the field phone how close the Germans were, he reportedly said hold on and let me ask them.
He came home the most decorated American soldier of the entire war. Every valor award the Army could give, some of them more than once, plus French and Belgian honors on top.
Life magazine put his baby face on the cover, James Cagney saw it and invited him to Hollywood, and the cotton picker who couldn't pass a physical became a movie star. He made over 40 films. In 1955 he played himself in To Hell and Back, the movie of his own memoir, and it was Universal's biggest hit until Jaws came along twenty years later.
But the war never let go. He had what we now call PTSD, slept with a loaded pistol under his pillow, and got hooked on sleeping pills trying to outrun the nightmares. He kicked the addiction by locking himself alone in a motel room for a week. Then he did something almost no famous man did back then: he went public, told the country that combat had wrecked his nerves, and pushed the government to study and treat what war does to a soldier's mind.
He died in a plane crash in 1971 at just 45 years old. They buried him at Arlington, where his simple headstone is the most visited grave in the cemetery after John F. Kennedy's.
Every branch told him he was too small to fight. He outfought all of them, then spent the rest of his life trying to help the men who came home broken like he did.
Women attack men when they’re happy.
Relationship expert Alison Armstrong says it’s because male happiness and power together feel threatening when a woman doesn’t feel deeply connected.
If he’s pumped about his sports win, big fish, or guys’ trip, and she didn’t create that joy, it can trigger fear. So she diminishes it. “Why are you so happy without me?”
It’s not conscious cruelty. It’s an unconscious reaction to power she doesn’t feel safe with.
“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of happiness is not sadness, it’s fear.”
@Suzzy0310 Mom really turned $800/month into “your dad never helped” while using it for rent, bills, and shoes? That’s not a mother, that’s a professional liar and thief. All those missed birthdays and games were on her. The real apology money should come from her now.