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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Leave women in their poverty & allow poor men like them to marry them.

Marry a woman that is of the same class as yourself.

A woman shouldn't get married to you because she wants to survive.

Let her get married to her type, & they both fight their way out of poverty.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

To every married man.

Every penny that your wife and children spend MUST come from you.

Even to the last drop of water.

That's why you're a man, husband and father.

It doesn't matter if your wife is making her own money, or makes more money than you do.

If you have a wife that is supporting you financially, see it as a blessing or privilege, more than your right.

That's why you as a man, can order your wife to stop working and sit at home.

And she can't do same to you.

If you do not have this type of mindset and mentality as a man, please do not marry a wife.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Dear married men,

You know what troubles you & your fears.

When you're praying with your family, pray for your family.

When you're praying alone, tell God your troubles & fears.

If you tell God when praying with your family, you'll make your wife & kids depressed.

End.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If you're starting late in marriage as a man.

And you do not have a house of your own.

And you're a salary earner.

Please do not start building a house.

Build cash and invest them into a HYIS etc.

Be very disciplined about it.

Build the investments to a point where the yields can be good enough to be catering for your responsibilities.

Use the yields to be raising your kids.

In case something happens to your job, or you are 60 and still have kids to pay their fees.

When you're done with raising your kids, you can then use your invested capital to either buy a small house somewhere or build something little, to retire into with your wife.

Then you can be living on stipends from your pensions.

Building or buying a house, is highly capital intensive.

And it takes time.

Your utmost responsibility as a married man, are your kids and wife.

You need constant flow of cash to be sustaining them.

Tying cash down in capital investments such as a house, is good but can be risky.

Unless you're so sure that your income can be sustained for a long time.

Just purchase a land somewhere, and the land value would be appreciating, while you continue to build cash investments.

I don't know if this makes sense.

But if you're a legitimate earner, you should know how difficult and unpredictable it is, to get money.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Before you go and cheat on your lovely wife, please calculate the amount that you'd spend on the woman you are going to cheat with.

Then assess the needs of your wife & kids.

If you have not met them, please spend that money on your wife and kids, then sit at home.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

It takes much more money for a woman to take care of herself to look beautiful & attractive, than it takes for a man.

If your wife is earning her own money, you should be happy.

Because even if you're spending your money to provide for her & the kids, she's covering up for you.

Whatever she spends on herself to keep looking beautiful, she'll always tell the world that you are responsible for it.

She doesn't even need to tell anyone.

People would naturally assume that it's you.

And it boosts your ego, and she'll be happy that you are not depending on her money to feed her.

Be a man, & learn these things.

No one truly cares if you have two pairs of shoes or 3 shirts & 3 trousers.

Just make sure that you take care of your hygiene properly.

So that the women you're cheating with, will not be sucking your smelly dick.

End.

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The photographer ATE!

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I have a very strong belief, but you don't have to agree with me.

If you work hard as a man to take good care of your wife, provide for her for the most part, & treat her with kindness.

You'll most always succeed in whatever you do.

But if she's a bad wife to you, despite doing all those.

You'll struggle badly, until she leaves your home.

The day you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You must earn your place in your man's life, as a woman.

It will be hard, but it's worth it.

Today, I shared some deep things about my lovely wife and I.

I didn't do it out of arrogance or disregard for my lovely wife.

I did it because I want to teach you young people that what you call "woke" today, is a dangerous poison that you're consuming.

Women love money, and so do men.

But women love money that is being spent on them, and men love money that they make legitimately.

All what my lovely wife had to let go while we were dating, she has been getting them in marriage.

That woman bills me at the slightest opportunity.

Though for the right reasons, but I feel the weight on me, & I don't feel bad doing it.

Infact, if God gives me more, she'll have more.

But she did not get there by asking me to pay for her hair or airtime or food.

She didn't get there by asking me to place her on monthly salary.

She didn't get there by asking me to go and steal, so that I can spend the money on her.

She didn't get there by cheating on me because I could not take care of her expenses.

She didn't get there because her family could cater to her needs.

Because we have seen young ladies whose parents or family members can cater to their needs, yet they are greedy and covetous.

The manual and teachings that I have been putting out in the last almost 5 years, is very good for you.

Do not allow what these feminists, feminized men, bitterly divorced women or woke celebrities or podcasters to decieve you.

Date sincerely, put in the work and stay focused on your careers, education and businesses.

For you young girls, do not allow your mothers to decieve you.

A woman is always a woman.

What she could not do under your father's roof, do not let her push you to do it.

If she was tired of your father, why is she still married to him?

Stay closer to your fathers instead, if your mother is obviously pushing you to bring shame to your family name.

When you make mistakes, learn from them, and do not allow your mistakes to define you.

If you cheat on your man, please have some shame and do not make it a norm because he's in the dark.

For you young men,

Please learn that you're the leaders.

The more you keep failing & stealing, the more you'd be meeting prostitutes in the name of girlfriends.

Every wrong decision you make about your life, has potential negative impact on the woman you're dating.

But learn to change your ways and do better.

Some of you are currently dating women that God has destined for you.

But your youthful exuberance is making you blind to it.

I told you all that God was so kind to me, this morning.

Yes, he was so kind to me.

The woman that I married, is a gem.

And I mean it in every sense of the word.

You have someone like her right now.

If you misuse the opportunity, you may not be as fortunate as I am.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Every wife likes to see her husband as the giver in the extended family.

Not the receiver.

If you're always mostly the giver, please protect your wife & children.

Your wife & children, are the most hated in the family.

But fake smiles will not make you see it.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I am telling you all these because my lovely wife is a housewife.

Meaning, she doesn't make money.

But she lives a lifestyle that some working class women dream of.

When you have a gf that is not greedy, you'll give her the best as a wife, according to your capacity.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Let me tell you men what you owe your gfs, when it comes to spending money.

You spend on dates & gifts.

You can dash her money once in a while.

You don't owe her money for hairs, cream, pads, food, phones, bags, shoes, dresses, rent, fees, airtime, allowance or gas.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You can't effectively date or marry a woman that has digested my teachings in all honesty, & you'll not be a traditional man.

Traditional men are the most difficult to please.

But when they love, they love so deeply.

And they hardly make mistakes on the choice of a wife.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Please note that Mr. Eazi is not a gold digger.

He worked legitimately hard to earn his wife.

Without his FIL's money, he can give his lovely wife the best.

No wealthy man will willingly give you his daughter, if you have not proven to be worth it.

"God when".

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Pray to have a good wife, more than you pray to have a good mother to your children.

Children abandon their fathers far more than they abandon their mothers.

Even if their father did it all to raise them.

If you don't have a good wife, all your efforts would be in vain.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This is why you have to show love and kindness to your wife.

She's like your "daughter".

You must lead her with love, focus and direction.

Above all, you must uphold your God's commandments as a husband.

We as men, can't do without women.

God is wise.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Even my lovely wife dey fall my hand sometimes.

Na why I say make una no break up ooo.

We learn everyday.

If her character is good, she can still teach your children.

Seize the opportunity to teach, & expose her with love.

She'll appreciate it, and respect you more.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I can't wait to see my lovely children get into the university and graduate.

My son saying...

"Daddy, I made a first class!"

My daughter saying...

"Daddy, I made first because you taught me not to depend on men for money, other than you & mommy"

So help me God 🙏.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I need all men to work hard legitimately.

Truth is, not all of us will be rich.

We may not give our kids the best of life, but we did our best.

Despite our mistakes & bad judgements.

Let's not envy each other.

But uplift each other legitimately, & with the love of God.

End.