Sex can become one of the most powerful forms of validation when people struggle with self-worth and lack a sense of fulfilment.
In the absence of spiritual, emotional, or material fulfilment, being desired offers tangible proof that they still have value.
This is a Random picture but I took it while thinking about how being unable to afford a life that permits you to do what you want, how you want and when you want leaves you being a slave to the next simplest, meaningless thing, which is sex in most cases. HAPPY THURSDAY❤️
Yazi human behavioural development is a marvel to witness.
My one year old daughter did something naughty, and I reprimanded her by raising my voice at her (something she hasn’t experienced before). She doesn’t understand the words I’m saying, but she can tell I’m not happy with her.
She immediately cries and runs towards me (the very person causing her this distress) with her little arms open, asking for an embrace.
She’s running to one of the few safe spaces she knows: her father’s massive arms and chest.
Magic.❤️
To think there are men who bring these bundles of joy into the world and then run away from them. 💔
Those who are absent in their kids lives do you see why it's important to be there for a girl child, when she said she wants to get father love damn it this is too deep, guys we can do better 😭 💔
🍌🍰 BANANA CAKE IN A BLENDER (SO MOIST & EASY!)
No mixer ❌
No bowls ❌
Just blend, bake & enjoy 😍
Super moist, fluffy, and PERFECT for overripe bananas!
🛒 INGREDIENTS
3 ripe bananas 🍌
2 large eggs 🥚
½ cup sugar (white or brown)
¼ cup oil 🛢️
¼ cup milk 🥛
1 tsp vanilla extract
1½ cups all-purpose flour
1 tsp baking powder
½ tsp baking soda
¼ tsp salt 🧂
(Optional: chocolate chips 🍫 or chopped nuts 🌰)
👩🍳 HOW TO MAKE IT
1️⃣ Blend wet ingredients
Add bananas, eggs, sugar, oil, milk & vanilla to a blender.
Blend until smooth.
2️⃣ Add dry ingredients
Add flour, baking powder, baking soda & salt.
Pulse just until combined (don’t overblend!).
3️⃣ Add extras (optional) 😍
Stir in chocolate chips or nuts if using.
4️⃣ Bake 🔥
Pour batter into a greased pan.
Bake at 180°C / 350°F for 35–40 minutes
(or until a toothpick comes out clean).
5️⃣ Cool & enjoy 🤤
Let cool slightly, slice, and serve!
I saw a TikTok where a woman said if you need a quick request from God to write it down and put it in your bible under Psalms 102 and come back with your testimony when it’s finished. The stories had me like omg 🥹💘 10/10 recommend.