Things about me you should know:
1. I'm not a "saint". I'm deeply flawed
2. I pride myself in being willing and able to have the difficult conversations
3. I like to say the quiet parts out loud
4. I like to be the devil's advocate
5. Vitam impendere vero. Veritas omnia vincit
Man cheats on wife. Man discovers side piece has HIV. Man gets tested and also has HIV. Man tells wife he cheated so she can get tested. Wife said she’s good. Man asks why? Wife told man she’s been on Prep their entire relationship. Man makes post on FB about feeling sabotaged and hurt by his wife keeping that information from him.
WHERE TF DO MEN GET AUDACITY? Is there unlimited access somewhere women don’t know about? wtf
I’ve been in Jos for like 5 days now and I have a lot to say.
Firstly, I never knew a people could be this nice and kind and respectful.
I almost felt sick because I never knew people could still be like that.
Lagos has fried my brain. People call you Sir while offering every service to you.
From the suya guy to the super market attendant to the local restaurant to every single person.
I’ve never seen this before in my life. In Lagos, the way I know the food in a restaurant would be good is if the woman is rude.
I never trust the food of a polite food seller in Lagos.
But I’m here where everyone treats you with respect.
Then things are cheaper. The uber that will normally cost 10 million naira here in Lagos is 2,500 here.
I’ve never seen life lived like this before. I see clear road everywhere.
I’m not scared of holding my phone carelessly.
Hotel is cheap with free WiFi. Omo. Jos na place.
@theolugbemi Def. If you isolate Jesus alone out of the equation, we can see he had core/primary feminist principles with how he dealt with everyone and issues.
If you add Paul, old testament and others back to the equation, we are back to misogyny. 🤷♂️
1stly, I love science. 2ndly, I’m tired of debating “what’s right.”
I’m big on aborting genetic deformities.
If You are ready to debate on why I support it for scientific reasons, I will show up.
I don’t care because it makes someone else feel bad.
Having experienced men and women platonically, and romantically, it makes perfect sense why I can never champion the woman good, man bad rhetoric.
They’re both as evil, as they’re good. They’re humans.
Women go any length to get what they want!
My guy has been crying, my dm don full.
He said his babe of 3 years recently celebrated her 25th birthday
Without a single kobo from him.
According to him, she asked for money to do it big
Since she’s halfway to 30 & wanted it to be a proper celebration.
He explained to her that there was no money... the economy is hitting his business hard right now.
Two days later
She sent him pictures of a hall she booked for 750k naira
And said she handled everything by herself.
Mind you, this girl only earns 75k monthly from her work.
The birthday went well & was successful, but my guy is still in serious pain.
He’s asking if is right to confront her ?
Since he didn't contribute on the birthday
Honestly I don't have answers for him.
What do you think and what will you do in such situation ?
This is bullshit because we all know that that meme is referring to women who claim they were raped to avoid accountability for actually having had consensual sex
A simple explanation for this is that women may forgive men who did things that met the legal definition of rape under certain conditions:
1. Stopped action
2. Sincere apology
3. Extenuating circumstance such as extreme inebriation
4. No intent to cause harm
5. Genuine remorse, as indicated by crying or similar
Penetration without consent, especially after being told “no” firmly, is not okay and meets the definition of rape.
Unfortunately some men, especially before #metoo created awareness, who meant no harm may have crossed boundaries with rationalizations such as “we had sex before so she will like it and change her mind” or “she is very aroused so she must really want penetrative sex even though she’s saying ‘no’.”
Cases that involve boundary crossing while “fooling around” are not going to be as traumatic, especially if the action is halted in response to yelling or pushing, as cases that involve deliberate attempt to harm and threats of violence.
We have given all cases the same name, as this is most logical. “No” means no, and the moral aim is to ensure bodily autonomy. But there is obviously a spectrum of severity.
Many women furthermore basically internalize coercive male sexual as “boys being boys” because so many men assert that coercive behavior, such as lying to get sex, is normal. Lying to get sex is morally equivalent and can be in many ways more harmful than physical force, yet men expect women to tolerate this without retaliation.
Consider that a man might forgive a friend who beat him up at some point. But there are varying degrees of physical assault. You might forgive a friend for punching you but not forgive a friend for beating you with a metal baseball bat and putting you in the ER.
Well well well
Now what would the hospital do moving forward to ensure such doesn't happen again.
Warn them not to get pregnant at the same time again?
Or just employ more men?
Welcome to the way of the world
This statement reminds me of the day a result came out, and I told this guy I had 75. He laughed and said, "You wey don get your 55 as usual." I smiled, but deep down, I felt insulted because I actually had 56.8.
I decided to shock him with my next result. The next exam was in two weeks, which realistically was actually too late for me to pull off an academic comeback that could give me a 70+.
Nevertheless, I locked in.
The next day, I read for 6 hours straight, after which I decided to reward myself with an episode of Game of Thrones
@Nele_Copywriter All Nigerian Prosperity/Pentecostal churches will mint atheists that’d shock OG atheists.
It’s one thing to doubt God’s existence purely out of intellectual skepticism; it’s another to become disillusioned and spiteful over unanswered prayers and unfulfilled expectations.
😭 what I’m seeing from that my tweet is that RCCG, Deeper life and Winner’s Chapel; through their proxy Covenant, probably minted the highest number of atheist, agnostics and irreligious people. up pentecostals
You may create a phone to make and receive calls, but the moment I buy that phone from you, what I use it for is no longer under your purview. I could use it as a wedge to hold up my couch and it wouldn't make a difference!
Utility, not "purpose," is what matters.
Konji way before the age someone can get married, then if you talk they will say you should read the bible, fast and pray, as if all this things can stop natural desire.