It's understandable that your actions are influenced by your past experiences, but it's important to recognize that they shouldn't serve as excuses for your behavior.
Bandsplaining
/หbandsplฤniNG/
noun INFORMAL
the explanation of a band thatโs been years by a younger generation, typically to an order generation, in a manner regarded as condescending or patronizing trying to gaslight you in thinking they discovered the said band.