You should have great advisors on your team. Not because you have to do what they tell you, but because you always want to have smart options to atleast review or choose from, beyond your own capabilities.
Most relationship issues come from living in your mind and not being able to let go of your mental version of someone else.
People change, and that’s your problem if you choose to live in the past and refuse to update your internal version of them.
Long-lasting relationships usually involve clear-minded people who know how to pay attention to the person that is right in front of them.