@KingMntungwa SYSTEMIC ERASURE
The deliberate marginalization of BLACKS in political and social spheres. In democratic processes, this phenomenon is often perpetuated by structural barriers like voter suppression, economic exclusion, poor public service delivery,
You see proximity?
Yes, proximity. That's all it takes for your wife or girlfriend to do something contrary to your marital vows or promises. And vice versa.
While factors like status and looks compel attraction, proximity operationalises it. It sets it in motion.
In proximity, conversations happen. Gestures are made. Assistance is rendered. Compliments flow. Familiarity grows. And with this, what once existed as a mere inkling magnifies into feeling and desire.
This is why your girlfriend gets into the university and suddenly becomes "busy" all the time. She is crushing on someone, talking to someone with whom she now shares proximity.
Because attraction is not destiny. It is simply two people, in the same place, at the same time, finding each other sufficiently safe to risk vulnerability. Human beings are always looking to take that risk. Emotion merely supplies the excuse.
But what is the message in all of this?
The message is simple and straightforward: principles are easy when proximity is absent.
"I trust my woman."
"I don't check my woman's phone."
"She can have as many male friends as she likes."
These convictions are often made in the comfort of distance, before life introduces that co-worker, classmate, business partner, a neighbour, gym instructor, or the FRIENDLY superior at Work.
The real threat to a relationship is rarely attraction in isolation. Attraction is common. Proximity is what gives attraction the opportunity to negotiate with conscience.
This is why wise men do not merely manage feelings; they manage circumstances.
Because loyalty is easier maintained at a distance than it is tested in constant proximity.
Check that f*cking phone early enough. Tell her you see her conversation with a particular colleague and it's too personal. Look for the signs. And make your warnings early.
But then, I have said enough.
Good luck. Or, congratulations.
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“We don't have to all agree, we don't have to be friends we don't have to like each other but we all have a responsibility to serve the interest of South Africas so this country doesn't need heroes but it needs principled people” General Nhlanhla Mkhwanazi
“if South Africa is serious about the national reset then the reset must include all of us. it must start with politicians, they drive fancy cars these days they live like business people” General Nhlanhla Mkhwanazi
@Megatron_ron Sometimes I wonder if we even have a functioning Congress. While those in power line their own pockets, they’re systematically stripping away our rights.
🇺🇸US Rep. Adam Smith reveals the Trump administration completely dismantled the State Department, replacing expert diplomats with two unqualified real estate developers.
He was referring to Trump's son-in-law, Jared Kushner and US envoy Steve Witkoff who currently shape US foreign policy even though they have no experience
@Megatron_ron “Two real estate developers handling war diplomacy sounds insane until you remember the administration thinks every country is either a deal, a threat, or beachfront with hostile tenants.
🔴WTF
" I blew R17.4 million, I wake up in the morning I buy GTI R250 000 I'm swiping it, I bought three houses, R1.8 million, R3.8 million , R2.8 million " What the hell🤧🤧🤣
If you know How long the people have been waiting for the Authorities to Solve these Madness you will understand their Frustration - How can you go all the way to someone Land and not fear to do this
#Ghana#south#Migrate#unity#Drugs
🚨 SIU Freezes R76.5m in Assets Linked to Eskom Corruption
The Special Investigating Unit has frozen 17 properties and 7 luxury cars tied to businessman Siyabonga Nkosi after uncovering inflated relay contracts at Eskom’s Kusile and Matla stations. Relays priced at R50,000 each—worth just R180–R450—cost Eskom R73.6m. Officials split tenders to dodge oversight, while Nkosi’s trusts laundered funds into prime real estate and supercars. The SIU will now move to recover losses and pursue criminal charges.
https://t.co/8l78rDIiF0