One effective behavior modification technique requires giving someone a taste of their own medicine. Also videotapes & audio recordings also very effective.
Do not mistake kindness for weakness. It is in fact the opposite. Hateful people hate on people. Empath understand. So we forgive. We transact from a place of love, kindness, compassion & respect. They think everyone is lke them. We aren't like them. They hate us for that.
It’s tragic how often empathetic people are mistreated. Because their empathy won’t allow them to hurt others, they end up hurting themselves. The goal isn’t for them to learn revenge. The goal is to create space for them to be safe, but especially when expressing empathy.
@recovery_your Sooooo much is lost to the victim. Narcs are vampires. They constantly need to feed. Empaths are the prey they hunt for their every survival. We must grieve the time lost/wasted.Narc abuse is very tricky to get over. It's a different type of grief that plaques NARC abuse victim
What abusers want their partners to sacrifice is everything—friends, family, ambitions, money, health, and, eventually, the very essence of who they are.
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@NarcissistBox We call that #WOKE
Once a victim understands the lame, pathetic, desperate manipulative behavior patterns, the toxic strategies to get what they want & need from you YOU WILL NEVER EVER FALL FOR THAT BULLSHIT EVER AGAIN!!
#WOKE
CIRCULAR CONVERSATIONS. Learn to recognize this pathetic tactic so you can stop it before it starts knowing that the NARC can not be convinced to change or shifting their their thinking rationally. Hence, no good is going to come from the debate or topic.
Manipulative narcissistic abusers will often focus on trivial details such as the use profanity, appearance, or the of expressing anger, to dismiss, evade or ignore a victim’s argument.
They might introduce irrelevant information or make unreasonable accusations to misdirect, confuse or deflate the victims’ argument to discourage addressing the real issue. This “RED HERRING” tactic is used to maintain control .