To everyone so eager to cancel someone for a tattoo they got at age 22, a drunk text, a selfie they took in the middle of a mental health crisis:
Show us your laptop.
Show us your iCloud.
Open your entire digital life to your worst enemy. No context. No filter. No explanation.
You won’t.
You won’t because you know what I know. Any one of us, frozen at our worst moment, photographed in our lowest hour, looks like a monster. Looks like a stranger. Looks like someone who deserves to be cast out.
That is not who we are.
My mom and baby sister were killed in a car accident when I was just a kid. Cancer took my brother Beau, my best friend and my rock. I battled alcoholism. I battled addiction. I chose the coward’s way out more times than I can count.
For years I believed the defining chapters of my life were written by tragedy, loss, and shame.
I no longer believe that.
Pain can shape us. Loss can humble us. Failures can leave scars that never fully fade. But none of them have the authority to define us.
And it sure as hell ain’t the critic that counts.
That authority belongs to us alone-the person in the arena.
Every setback presents a choice. Play the victim, or cut the bullshit and take ownership for who we become next.
Life does not determine our character. It reveals it.
Again and again we are asked the same question. When shit happens, what next?
We are not defined by what happened to us. We are not defined by the worst photo, the worst text, the worst tattoo, the worst night. We are defined by the person we choose to become. And by the courage to choose that person, every single day.
So before you reach for the gavel - show us your laptop.
You won’t.
The whole world saw mine. And I am still here. Still becoming. Still choosing. Still standing.
That is the only definition that matters.
@marceelias Exactly.. I no longer trust 60 Minutes or CBS national news. After watching CBS nightly for decades I along with my family and friends have switched to another network.
@nickbilton@60Minutes I fixed it for you … 60 minutes “was” the most successful ( and trusted) news magazine in TV history.
CBS News has lost the trust of me, my friends and my entire family. Switched to NBC for all our news.
Our government shot & killed an American citizen during a stop last year. We’re only finding out about it now. Where’s the outrage @JohnCornyn & @SenTedCruz ? This was your constituent. https://t.co/gPl6jeyhrS
@ColinAllredTX@jamestalarico Colin, I am so disappointed in you. I have supported you in everyone of your efforts. Look in the mirror… we are all now seeing the real you come out.
BREAKING:
Both the White House & RNCC have lashed out at the creators of this ad.
It must have struck a nerve.
Maybe they don't like being outed as fascists.
You know what to do: SPREAD THIS EVERYWHERE!
“An administration official gave away the game to Punchbowl News, admitting that these “de-escalatory measures” are about placating Senate Democrats so they don’t seize this moment to demand restrictions on ICE as part of any government funding package.”
https://t.co/zttrmnW1jA
From @springsteen :
I wrote this song on Saturday, recorded it yesterday and released it to you today in response to the state terror being visited on the city of Minneapolis. It’s dedicated to the people of Minneapolis, our innocent immigrant neighbors and in memory of Alex Pretti and Renee Good.
Stay free, Bruce Springsteen