behind a girl who says “everything happens for a reason” or “it is what it is” is a girl who can’t understand what she did to deserve all the pain and traumas she’s gone through in her life
Instead of nightclubs I want a 24hr library with hot chocolate stations, a dessert bar, coffee machine, big comfy chairs and beanbags, blankets, dogs welcome, just people who want to spend the evening reading alone, together, peaceful, a cosy fire, plants, an indoor waterfall.
If you have to consistently fight for someone to see your worth/to treat you the way you deserve, it does not matter how much they love you, don’t settle. There is always a love that will be ready. To honor, to cherish and to value you in the ways you’ve always dreamed.