People lack accountability, then say; "you could have talked to me." No, I couldn't You don't listen, You deflect, You twist everything into an attack and then play victim Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument not to understand.
You need to be completing side quests in real life I was talking to a woman at a shop and it came up that she runs an organization that takes care of monkeys who can't survive in the wild and I got her number so I can visit the monkeys