Caleb Merridan౨ৎ

learning the magic of being loved
Dating Tips & Relationship Skills & Keep Love Alive

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@Romazehari Real love does not shrink you. It appreciates who you are, supports who you are becoming, and makes both people want to grow without losing themselves.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@Urfv_shammy Emotional stability is not having no feelings. It is having the ability to stay responsible with them. A calm man does not dump his storm on you.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@hanyuri167 Cheap words cost nothing. Watch the calendar, the effort, the plans, the way he shows up when it is inconvenient. That is where intention actually lives.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@arnacoeurse_ I hope every sensitive girl meets a steady man who leads with patience and generosity. And when he shows up, I hope she can receive it instead of testing him until he leaves.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@hy_wemmy Effort is bare minimum when it is mutual. It only gets ugly when one person keeps saying how much they did, while the other is expected to feel guilty.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

A relationship is between two people.
Tell your friends you're dating someone, sure.
But don't run to a third person with every small fight before you've even calmed down.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

When you really love a woman, spending money on her feels like a pleasure.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

Do all couples argue like this?

1. Fine, it's my fault
2. If that's what you think, okay
3. Here we go again
4. What now
5. Do whatever you want
6. I said sorry, what else do you want

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

I get a little jealous of people who love the same person for a lifetime.

The ones who watched each other grow from messy teenagers into calmer adults.

From school uniforms and bare faces to real life, real bills, real home.

That must be something.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

Worse than cheating is the doubt you can't prove.

Watching your boyfriend make big decisions without telling you first breaks something quiet.

It makes you feel like you were never someone who deserved to know.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

If they can go a whole day without replying, you already have your answer.

Someone who truly loves you doesn't disappear that easily.

Missing you shows up in small things. A text. A check-in. A simple are you okay.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

love the idea of a “guiding partner.”

“Tell me why today hurt.”
“Take your time. I’m listening.”
“You don’t have to feel guilty for my effort. I choose this.”
“We missed this train. We’ll catch the next one.”
“I’m not leaving. I know you need me.”

That kind of love doesn’t just comfort you. It makes you braver.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@LewisHowes Become the version of yourself you keep imagining when no one is clapping.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@miiagarro When a relationship starts costing your peace, your sleep, and your sense of self, it is already telling you something.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@marielavlnso Nobody wants a partner who turns every hurt into a lecture. Admiration dies fast when one person keeps standing above the other and calling it help.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@SahilBloom This is the kind of love people forget after kids. Not just parenting beside each other, but still choosing the mother, the woman, the person. That matters.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@pallnandi The closer you get to anyone, the more flaws you see. Love is not finding someone perfect. It is seeing the hard parts clearly and still choosing to adjust together.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@elenadesaa1999 Being single for a long time can make love feel suspicious.

Every kind move starts looking planned, every interest feels like an agenda. That is the part that gets harder.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@zcahverse Believe me, he was not worth you breaking yourself like that. Put your love in more than one place, family, friends, yourself. Then one person going cold cannot destroy your whole day.

[Caleb Merridan౨ৎ @CalebMerridan]

@soymbleu Losing you is his loss, not yours.

He lost someone who loved hard and asked for little. You lost someone who could not meet that kind of love properly.