This is the reality of most modern marriages in 2026.
The woman spends her 20s getting pumped and dumped by attractive men, then finds a nice beta male to clean up the mess and provide financial security.
The brutal reality is that many women don’t marry the men they truly desire. They marry the men who offer stability.
Years later, the marriage falls apart, the assets get divided, the house gets awarded to her, and she’s back on the market with more resources than she started with.
Meanwhile, the husband is left wondering how he spent years building a life that disappeared in a courtroom.
MJ was deep into affirmations, hypnosis and anything that could change the subconscious mind, anyone that tells you it doesn´t work, remember MJ himself DID IT, below are his actual affirmations
"I will be a magnet, a protector, a money alchemist. I will be magic"
Las personas con baja autoestima tienden a tener estándares más bajos sobre las personas que les rodean, eso les lleva a tener amigos de peor calidad, parejas de peor calidad y relaciones de peor calidad. Y el cómo te trata la gente que te rodea es uno de los factores más importantes para la construcción de la autoestima. Es un círculo cerrado: como no me quiero soporto a gente que me destruye, y como soporto a gente me destruye, no me quiero.
The most successful car salesman in America had a different question:
Not “How do I sell this person a car today?” but “How do I make sure they come back to me for their next one?”
So he sometimes downsells, recommends a cheaper model that’s nearly as good. Builds instant trust. One McLaren salesman even saved Jay Leno $20k on ceramic brakes he didn’t need.
Rory Sutherland points out that if you only chase short-term, easily measured sales, you’ll never do this. The top guy probably looked average for his first few years.
Long-term success often looks like short-term “failure” when you’re playing a different game, one based on trust instead of extraction.
“ If people like you, they’ll listen to you, but if they trust you, they’ll do business with you.” — Zig Ziglar
To be honest I don't think this is really it. I don't think that is even a possibility in most situations. I think it's that young men have been taught that their own desires are evil and women are uninterested at best. They thus refrain from imposing themselves on women. This is a huge (maybe the biggest) part of why male self-esteem is so low now.
As more and more studies come out we find that women are made even more miserable by this state of affairs than men - but since they were the ones who taught young men that, it's hard to feel sympathetic. A lot of youth are even happy about it, as if this doesn't mean the doom of us all.
But the root cause is not actual abuse that women will heap on men who approach them. It is a civilization that has spent billions on convincing young men that their existence is negative.
Recently I read the best book on trading and found the solution to my most difficult trading problem after 5.5 years. It is the highlighted text from the book written by @baynkr
.The book is as close to how a professional trader acts while trading!!
Never make every victory look like struggle, because people respect effort in theory but price visible struggle as weakness in practice. Do the hard work in private, show the finished result in public, and let others experience your output as clean, calm, and more costly to lose than to challenge.
the loser asks "why?", the chad asks "why not?". one of the most important phrases there is. why not ask the girl? why not go on the adventure? why not say yes? why not you? why not win? go through life like this and a lot of doors will just open. big lesson in there.