normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
a man decides if he wants to date you based entirely on your looks right off the bat but if a woman factors money into this equation she’s the shallow one somehow
Breakups in your 30s hit differently. It's not the same as heartbreak at 21. At 21, you cry, vent to friends, go out, distract yourself, and somehow you heal. Back then, life felt long, full of possibilities, what ifs, and( second chances). But in your late 20s or as you approach your 30s, it feels different. You are not only losing a person. You are losing plans, routines, and the version of yourself that was building a future with them.
maybe it'll help someone out there but the best lesson I learned in my 20s was to surround myself with great friends who weren't afraid of confrontation & being upfront with how they felt and open-minded in those hard conversations. dealing with indirect people who refuse to address problems directly and yet still talk about the issue behind your back to others will be a big source of anxiety & the pit in your stomach regarding friendships. there's a lot of wonderful people out there, but you absolutely do have to look ✨
Bill Maher: "Under Trump, you guys have two outcomes that an election can be: either we win, or they cheated. That shit has to stop."
JD Vance then claims tech companies rigged the 2020 election: "By the way, it didn't happen in 2024, but it happened in 2020."
Maher: "You're going to get a big pat on the back when you go back to the White House."
That’s why every man will strive to be guy B (sex on 1st date) instead of guy A (8 dates nothing). Do women realize there’s no incentive for a man to strive to be guy A? The better “deal” is being given to the guy who doesn’t “qualify” for a relationship.
@glogirljo@Ifanyima I agree up to the point where min was not toxic. Maybe slightly toxic? But more so just clear incompatibility catching up in the end. How long ago did you guys split?