Casey Blake

On a mission to make sex and sexuality 'dinner-table appropriate' topics for discussion.
#ToolsForHavingTheTalks @WhatNowSA

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@MTNzaService My spouse applied for the black friday special the week of the 27th, and has yet to receive any communication if his contract has been upgraded. Numerous calls to the call centre, to be told the online application 'call centre' doesnt exist.

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

I'm on @CapeTalk talking about heteronormativity with @RefilweMoloto

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

I'm going to be on @kayafm95dot9 7pm tonight chatting about intimacy in long term relationships. Listen in, and call in, if you can!

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Refiloe58218869 @NgemaNomasonto What's wierd to me is that so many people pretend they never fart.

If you are holding in a fart during sex, it is quite likely you are NOT enjoying the moment. If you need to leave the room, do, the moment is already spoilt for you- by holding it in.

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Part of me is baffled by the constant need for these talks.

The rest if me is a sad cynical child, sitting in the corner, crying, from all the abuse that continues, unquestioned.

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@cneezysk1 Durban! Do you want to arrange for me to run the workshops for you and other parents in the area😄?
If so, lets plan over email!
[email protected]

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

Not sure how to speak to your child about sex?
Maybe these workshops are for you?
https://t.co/EL85hb8F1v

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@tiffmugo @Deejay_Pkay @RealTalkOn3 @Azania_ @JadeZwane @tiffmugo I've been in sessions all morning!
Can't wait for the link so we can watch it!

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

The next workshop series for parents of 7-10 yr olds starts next weekend!
What conversations about bodies have you started w/yr kids?
https://t.co/YO2NSoiDrU

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

Threesome/swinger/vouyer fantasies are so common!
Acknowledging fantasies doesnt mean we need to act on them.
It can definitely add to the erotic imagination during sex play👂🧠

[😎MxozetMakhoba😅👊 @Mxolisi29487987]

@RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @CaseyBlakeSA @Azania_ Is it OKAY to have sex and in your head you create the pictures of your partner having sex with someone else 🤔

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@BMadhoo @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ Yup, porn is all about visual fantasies and what "looks good" on camera.
Seldom do we see bodies that look like ours in porn, which can sometimes have a negative impact on how we view ourselves as desirable

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

What makes vibrators and other pleasure accessories so scary?

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@BMadhoo @Mabonelo2 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ collaboration is always better than competition ;)
Use the vibes during partnered sex to increase everybody's pleasure!

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@06Nozipho 💗💗 what did you think?

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Dikeledi_Mokone I come with an impressive demo box with a variety of accessories, as well as stock that can be purchased after the party ;)

I'll DM you with my current rates for the party :)

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Mxolisi29487987 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ I see many couples who come for counselling sessions, just to find ways to start these kinds of conversations :)

These conversations can be hard to start... but allow for a more authentic connection in the relationship

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Mxolisi29487987 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ start the conversation slowly.
We are often shy because we have learned that it is in someway unsafe to speak honestly about our sexual wants and desires.
We do live in a world that slut shames women for being sexual, and calls us frigid when we say no...

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@BMadhoo @Mabonelo2 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ collaboration is always better than competition ;)
Use the vibes during partnered sex to increase everybody's pleasure!

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@BMadhoo @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ Yup, porn is all about visual fantasies and what "looks good" on camera.
Seldom do we see bodies that look like ours in porn, which can sometimes have a negative impact on how we view ourselves as desirable

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

If you enjoyed our chat on @RealTalkOn3, you can always hire me to do #SexToysAtTheDinnerTable party with your friends!
A pleasure accessory party full of fun facts with me!

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Mxolisi29487987 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ Speaking about fantasies are a great way to share intimacy with our partners.
It doesn't mean we want to act on them

[Casey Blake @CaseyBlakeSA]

@Mxolisi29487987 @RealTalkOn3 @JadeZwane @Azania_ Perfectly normal to have these kinds of fantasies.
Many people fantasise about what it would look like to see their partners with other people.