Let him. Let him lose you. Let him miss you. Let him realize what he had when you’re no longer there. Let him sit with the consequences of his choices. Stop chasing, stop convincing, stop begging to be loved. The people who truly value you will never risk losing you in the first place.
Hey ladies!!! Please don’t give us anymore advice on how to keep a man… We wanna know how to make 100k every month. Those are the secrets we wanna know!!!
In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
Cutting people off feels different now. It’s not anger, it’s grief. Like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
The discourse around liking pictures while in a relationship is exactly why so many women are becoming emotionally detached from dating. Too many ppl normalize behavior that keeps one foot in single life while pretending to not be driven by lust & constant access to other women