Dr Julius Kipngetich advises men to outsmart their ever rising women.
Men are facing imense pressure from rising women in the society. Kipngetich has the following advice to men:
1. Increase knowledge by reading a book every week
2. On personal finance, save money and stop overspending in huge SUVs, emulate Chinese minimalist expenditure.
3. Generate more income by having more than one income source since women are earning more than men nowadays.
4. Farming maize when you're in Nairobi doesn't make economic sense. Invest in money market, bonds and treasury bills instead.
5. Don't overspend on relatives instead encourage them to develop their own revenue generating avenues.
6. Always be present, don't stay in pubs until 12AM. Kipngetich personallly gets home by 8pm daily.
7. Learn at least one sports activity, language and music instrument. For example, learn darts or chess or football, local languages such as Kikuyu, Luo or Kalenjin and perfect one music instrument like guitar or piano.
8. Go to church every Sunday, build your relationship with God.
The core of the matter is: keep rising as a man. Don't stagnate.
@thyflameoflove I also think Teresa of Avila had earlier warned against getting attached to extraordinary experiences because they can bring about pride or lack of humility. She still begged God to yake them away to live an ordinary life.
Do you know that there is a saint invoked against procrastination? He's a saint for those who need things done right now, not tomorrow!
He is Saint Expedite,snd today, April 19th, is his feast day..
He is often called upon for help in overcoming delays and taking decisive action, stemming from the legend where he rejected the devil’s urging to postpone his conversion to Christianity.
In that story, depicted with him crushing a crow symbolizing "tomorrow" (cras in Latin) while holding a cross marked "today" (hodie),
he embodies swift resolution and is a popular figure for those seeking to combat procrastination or resolve urgent matters quickly.
Miraculous Prayer or Prayer for Urgent Matters
My Saint Expedite of urgent and just causes,
please intercede for me with Our Lord Jesus Christ.
Succor me in this hour of affliction and despair,
my Saint Expedite. You who are a holy warrior,
You who are the Saint of the afflicted,
You who are the Saint of the desperate,
You who are the Saint of urgent causes,
protect me, help me,
give me strength, courage, and serenity. Hear my plea
(Here, clearly express your request and ask him to find a way to grant it.)
My Saint Expedite, help me to prevail through these difficult hours,
protect me from all those who want to harm me,
respond to my plea with urgency.
Bring me back to the state of peace and tranquillity,
my Saint Expedite. I will be grateful to you for the rest of my life
and I will speak your name to all those who have faith. Amen.