Men,
What about your children?
Will you be moving them from one house to the other across the city's estates just because you don't have a home?
What if schools close?
Do they remain in ugly apartments as other children go to the village?
Think!
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Men,
Listen,
When life takes a bad turn,
• Job loss
• Auction
• Accident or trauma
• Divorce
The only place that can give you a peaceful recovery is your home, that you build on your land.
You need the silence to recalibrate your compass.
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Men,
Once you buy land, here is what you MUST do:
• Fence it
• Sink a borehole
• Build a pit latrine at the far end corner
• Identify the gate and mark it
These the first important 4 steps.
Dont just jump and start building.
Build first the foundation of declaring your boundary.
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Men,
Then,
After declaring your boundary,
Begin designing your home
"Here is the main house"
"My son's first house will be here"
"This will be the livestock padock"
"I will create here a crops garden"
"This will be the resting area."
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Men,
During the erection of the gate and also during the construction of your house foundation,
Your wife should cook for the masons, artisans and guests.
Her wifely duties begin there.
If she can't, she is useless.
A home is where you will live with her for years, and raise children.
She must be part of its first development by cooking and fetching water.
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When you sleep well, you heal well.
During deep sleep:
• Cortisol drops & resets.
• Growth hormone repairs tissue.
• The brain clears metabolic waste.
• Insulin sensitivity is restored.
No supplement can replace sleep.
No gym routine can replace the absence of sleep.
Men,
Lastly,
You are marrying the mother of your children,
Not a drama performer.
Not a social media trendsetter.
Not an Instagram influencer.
You are marrying a woman to live with for the rest of your life.
Don't be mesmerised by a short-term chemical explosion called beauty, romance and sex.
Avoid these social media hoodrats, and Gilbey dragons.
Marry a silent girl, who values her silence and privacy.
Marry a woman who is ready to conceive, birth, breastfeed and nurture babies in privacy.
Beauty will fade, but character will remain.
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Men,
How sure are you that the pregnancy she is carrying is yours?
Are you sure those children are yours?
Have you carried out a DNA?
You will be shocked that so many men are raising other men's children unknowingly.
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Men,
Toxic feminists don't like #MasculinitySaturday because it takes away the power they yield on weak, ignorant men.
These low-value social media hoodrats thrive on manipulating men.
They steal, armtwist and drain all the value from men.
Our conversation terrifies them because once you see their masks, they lose the imaginary power they have been using to terrorize men.
Men,
#MasculinitySaturday is for MEN.
I don't understand why chaotic feminists camp in our comments.
Must retarded women squeeze themselves where men are having a conversation?
If you see an angry woman on my timeline, that is a red flag.
Her ex-boyfriends dodged a bullet.
Men,
Your wife's nutrition during pregnancy is paramount.
Provide nutrient-dense foods.
This means: Meat, Eggs, Green Leafy vefgies and Essential Fats.
Essential fats are: Fatty meats, Avocado, Coconut, Cashewnuts, Tallow, Butter
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Men,
Then when your baby is born,
Ensure her mother breastfeeds it in the first 30 minutes of its life,
No water, glucose or cow milk.
The milk your babyvsuckles first is known as colostrum.
Colostrum is thick, yellow, small in volume, and heavy in power, antibodies, white cells and gowth factors.
Colostrum lines your baby's gut and shuts the door on infection.
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Men,
Remember,
Do not accept NAN and artificial formula milk for your neonate.
Refuse.
Hospitals and nutritionists are in cahoots with the food industry to force you to buy these products.
Your baby only needs breast milk.
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Men,
"But, but, but my wife doesn't have enough breast milk."
Lies.
That is the selling point of the food industry.
Listen,
Nature can't give a mother what she can't handle.
Once she regularly puts the nipple in the baby's mouth, it triggers the suckle reflex, and milk production starts.
So, she has either refused to breastfeed or doesn't know the techniques of breastfeeding.
Long before NANs were heavily marketed, nurses used to train every new mother on how to breastfeed. Nowadays they don't because they sell NAN.
Reject NAN for your baby.
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Men,
Remember,
Your baby should breastfeed EXCLUSIVELY for 6 MONTHS.
No water. No glucose. No gripe water.
Just BREAST MILK.
Breast milk is enough for the baby.
In addition, breastfeeding bonds the mother with your baby.
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Men,
If your wife refuses to breastfeed,
She dislikes your baby.
She is a murderer.
The joy of every African mother is breastfeeding.
The bonding, the eye contact and the sound of the suckling reflex when breastfeeding is the epitome of motherhood.
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Men,
60% of the dry weight of your baby's brain is fat.
Most of that fat is DHA ( DocosaHexaenoic Acid).
DHA is the structural fat of brain tissue.
DHA comes from: breast milk, oily fish, egg yolks, organ meats.
Babies fed adequate DHA:
• Have better attention spans.
• Score higher on cognitive tests.
• Have lower rates of childhood mood disorders.
What you feed a child's brain in the first five years matters.
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Men,
Before I forget,
Remember,
It is your birthright, duty and responsibility to name your baby.
Nobody should purport to do it.
Not even your wife.
YOU.
Some of you let your wives and mothers-in-law to name.
Weak sauce.
Bladifakin.
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Men,
Once she is pregnant, stay away from her,
Give her time and space to nurse.
Be present, provide, protect when required.
Leave the rest to your mother, or aunts.
When a cock fertilizes a hen, you will not see him loitering around a broody hen.
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Men,
Your wife's pregnancy is also sacred.
Therefore, keep it silent and private.
Inside her womb is a fragile life carrying your blood being moulded.
Protect it away from evil eyes and cursed mouths.
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